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I feel bad for not contacting him, should I say sorry?

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Question - (20 September 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2010)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I asked this guy out. He cancelled on me once and we rescheduled for later in the week. Then he ignored my attempts to contact him about our plans. I got mad and sent a text to him calling him an ass. He sent a smiley face back. And then i sent another text to him, to which he said i'm "fucking weird!!!!" I haven't tried to contact him since about a week ago. However, I'm starting to feel bad about doing that. Should I say sorry at all? Either way, I was going to move on.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 September 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI wouldn't apologize to that prick. He isn't interested, stop wasting your time on him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010):

Just leave him to it as he doesn't sound interested.

Next time, let him run after you and don't send so many texts.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (20 September 2010):

xanthic agony auntIf anything, he should be the one that feels bad. He was messing around with you and being an ass, you were right to tell him so.

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A female reader, Eskim0 New Zealand +, writes (20 September 2010):

I think that you would be wasting your time if you were to answer back to this guy. He seems like a douche in my opinion, and totally not worth the effort.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010):

I don't think you have anything to feel bad about. It sounds like he was messing you around regarding your plans to go out, and when you expressed your annoyance he didn't take it seriously at all. That doesn't show much respect for your time or feelings in my opinion. If he is really keen on you, he will contact you. But since he was messing you around regarding your plans to meet, he doesn't sound very serious to me. I think moving on is a good idea here. Don't waste any more time on him. He has wasted enough of yours.

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