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writes:hey, i know theres people much worse off people then me out there but im so fed up of my life. people have told me go get out there and meet new boys, as i was going for the wrong type (just wanted 1 thing). so i did this and met this boy i really liked he had a baby from his realtionship before which i understood. it was all fine untill last nite i went out with my friends and went into the pub were he works (i didnt go in to see him i went in because we all met up there and he knows i go there as this is were we met) after he finished work he texted me sayin "he likes me but can we be friends as he wanted to see his son as much as he can and rather see his then be happy" i dnt understand what went wrong as i have never once stoped his from seeing him and he can even give a proper reason why he jst wants to be friends. i feel so cut up about this and is starting to feel as if no boy want me. please help!!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 I sure he does in fact want you, but he is putting his son first. He's saying that this is not the time for this relationship to properly get started and I agree with him, I think this is for the best. He still wants to be your friend so that perhaps later in life, he can be with you with no worry, he can devote his time to your relationship.
I hope that helps.
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