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writes:I have been friends with this girl I have known for about a year now. At I thought of her only as a friend, but recently I have been developing feelings for her, which only get stronger every day.Last week I asked her if we could hang out together, and she accepted, we wandered around the city, went to the arcade played together, visited a museum and I paid for her lunch. She told me that she enjoyed hanging out with me and we hugged and left.Today she told me that her older sister thought we were dating in a flirtatious way and I'm not sure if she is trying to hint out that she likes me or not. I want to tell her my feelings for her, but I know she has a boyfriend as she told me before and she keeps it a secret(a relationship with a guy she knows over the internet).I want to tell her how I feel, cos I think she might like me, but at the same time I don't want to lose our friendship if she thinks I'm trying to get in the way of her current relationship or is offended in any way. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot!!! I finally managed to tell her how I feel... and I'm glad I did because she told me that she really has feelings for me too, but she said that her heart was confused between me and ther internet guy :(
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reader, petina1  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 From what you have said it sounds like she really does like you. at least you are real and in the flesh, so I'd guess you would stand a better chance with her in place of the internet guy. I would take it a step further and tell her of your feelings. If she doesnt see you that way, just laugh it off by saying 'you can't fault a man for trying', and just be her friend.
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