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writes:Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys.Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden he said he no longer loved me. We broke up and I didn’t speak to him, I even changed my phone number.Boy # has recently contacted me, and asked me to just see him, so I have, he told me that he misses me, so I say the same. Its really confusing, because he is not really asking me back, he just treats me strangely. I loved Boy # to the most absolute way that I could. HE threw me away but now wants me to talk to him and cuddle himWhat does he want from me, he is giving me mixed signals and its driving me nuts. Any ideas? Anything at all.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Now if a valid sourced told you this..then let him go from being a part of your life. However, if the source heard amongst others then go with my other advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNow i hear he has a girlfriend, or a love thing i'm not sure. NOW i'm even more confused.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 October 2010):
He just up and said he no longer loved you, get out? It's possible he freaked because things were getting serious especially if it went fast, and he just wasn't ready for it. I can see he gave you no closure, guys rarely give us that common courtesy. So now he has resurfaced back into your life, it's possible he misses you and doesn't know if you will take him back. Maybe he's afraid you'll reject him as in a way to retaliate. Either tell him how you feel, and ask him if you guys can work on getting back together. Or tell him you can't do this because it's hurting you and that he is not to contact you anymore.
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reader, aroura +, writes (24 October 2010):
Don,t make it too easy for him!! i am not saying he is, but just in case...if you are having sex you may want to stop it for a while. Tell him you are confused. ask him what this. like my friends always say"don't be afraid to ask the tough questions and be prepared for what the answer will be". he is the only one who can answer the questions you have. if he really cares for you talking and spending time together out of the sheet will be enough til he figures out what he wants and lets you in on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): no iaea.. guess u broke up for a reason..
dont let him do ur head in
ask him wats he's after..
surely after 3 years he could give u a straight answer..
dont settle for second best..
be strong
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