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writes:I'm in love with my boyfriends best mate. I really don't know why but I am and I really don't know what to do. The thing is I can't tell this guy (my bfs best mate) how I feel because it was him in the first place who asked my current boyfriend out for me. I don't know why I suddenly have these feelings for him but we've been working on a project together and now all i look forward to these days is swing him. I can't break things off with my bf and ask him out because that would seem really cruel and heartless especially if I were to ask his best mate out. But I really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but right now my life is miserable. I really don't know what to do please please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Hey darlin. I will advice you to take things easy. It might be a mere infactutation you're having for your bf' mate. Love grows. Program ur mind to love your bf and don't get distracted but if u don't have feelings for your bf then let go but ur bf best mate ain't an option. Let go everything. Wish u all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): you can't stay with your boyfriend if you don't love him. Being caught up with something like this is complicated and you should set down and figure out what you have to do to make yourself happy. it is important to consider other peoples feelings but i believe you should always put yourself ahead of everyone else...do what makes you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): I can totally relate to this because I too have been in this situation. You find yourself looking forward to seeing your boyfriend more because you know he'll be around somewhere too. The best advice I can give? TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL! If he doesn't feel the same way then you know you can move on. If he does? It kind of puts you in a sticky situation, but what's important here is you're happiness. Women for years have put up with crap and a miserable time with men, for once, we should make a stand and do what we want for once.
Just make sure you'll be making the right decision though, your boyfriends best friend might not be the perfect guy afterall. Then you won't be happy at all! :\
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