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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a girl in summer. She really enjoyed messing with me, to the point I'd get a bit angry, like taking my stuff and pushing me. Time passed. I never thought much of her. Towards the end of the summer, we started talking on fb for long times. She gave me her number on fb on my status. We texted into midnight a few times talking about nothin. It was great. I thought of asking her out, but she was so pretty and outta my league. She got a bf. Even tho she had a bf, she told me she'd never lemme go, then said jk. I had told her I had something to tell her but 'forgot'. The day before her rela was official she asked if I had remembered. I said no. A few weeks passed. I asked her out. She agreed but had to make sure she could. She asked if the outing was for 2 only and I said yes. Turns out I gave her a wrong day. I tell her the rite one and she asks what time. I tell her and she asked how I was getting there. Is that a yes? Does she still like me, if she did at all? Any other advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): She has a boyfriend, but you still asked her out on a date? And she accepted your date, basically? Do you not see the problems here?
First of all, this girl has a boyfriend. Her style of flirting sounds like that of a 13-year-old, so unless you're a 22-25-year-old male interested in a 13-year-old girl, she must be very immature for her age.
Furthermore, if she was willing to accept a date from a guy who isn't her boyfriend, who is to say that if she ever becomes your girlfriend, she won't be accepting dates from other guys as well? Do you really want to be in a relationship with a girl who is so willing to go on dates with other guys while she's in a relationship?
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