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writes:hi i m 16 n i hve a bf, say his name is John.We hve been dating for 3 mnths.I know that he loves me a lot and even i love him a lot but neither does my nor his parents know that we are dating .I m sure my parents wont allow me to see him anymore if they cum to know that i m dating sumone.Wen i wnt to see him i hve to tll lies to my parents and go...i don want to tll lies to my parents..and still i want to see him...should i stop all this....am i tooo young to date?...or am i doin sumthin wrong??.....plzzz help me i m confused!!!! THANK YOU Reply to this Question
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reader, divb +, writes (9 July 2010):
divb is verified as being by the original poster of the question thnks a lot all of u for ur answers :)
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 parents can be pretty lame sometimes they have their own lame reasons not to want you to date its usually that they want to be controlling and have say over your life and what you do.. on the other hand they have some valid reasons not to want you to date everybody knows what happens when little grls and little boys get to gather..
your best bet is to tell the truth tell them you like this boy and your responsible and ask them if they would like to meet him... at 16 you should def be allowed to date for some reason people expect to be able to throw a kid out at 18 and there supposed to just automatically have perfect relationships... its a learning experience and 16 isnt to young... but alas your country flag says United Arab Emirates hmmm Well theres many laws in those country and religious views on everything so i guess you mght have to decide s this boy worth all the hassle he probably isnt though
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): Yes. Telling lies is always wrong. But especially in a situation like this. At 16 you should be able to maturely have a chat about it with them. Good luck.
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