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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello all, My boyfriend of 4 months has got back with his ex without even telling me.His sister had to tell me, I hadnt heard from him for a week, and now I find out he is gonna try and make it work for the sake of his children.Im gobsmacked. He begged me to take him back told me he loved me, adored me etc and now I hear this, not even from himself. I havent even contacted him to tell him what a schmuck he is. I dont want him to think im shedding any tears over him.How can I finally get over this man who walks back into my life with false promises and makes me fall for him all over again. I feel like a fool and dont want him to get the better of me.He'll be back with her, arguing, drinking in a loveless relationship again and I dont ever want him to think he can just march back again whenever things go wrong again (in which they will) with the ex.Any advice on helping me adjust, remain dignified and how to cope when i see him after this??Yours trulyan embarrassed and person.
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (9 July 2010):
Sorry to hear that, it's very hurtful that he could treat you that way.
But you have done very well all by yourself. You have acted with dignity, just carry on as Caring guy said.
Good luck, Remember there is a prince after the frogs - Yours will arrive soon :o)
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reader, loraemoon +, writes (8 July 2010):
 id say dont have contact at all,he thinks he can just walk in and out of your life thats not right,
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 July 2010):
Cut all contact, delete his numbers and ignore him as much as you can. When he speaks to you, just reply hello, then say you're busy and can't stop. Always be polite, but always be sharp and dismissive with him. Just don't believe another word he says, and make sure you never speak to him first or have anything more to do with him. And stop feeling embarrassed as well. It's not your fault that you're nice and he's an ass.
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