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*uzzzzy
writes:ive met cocky guys players jerks who only want sex or guys who have a gf but say they like u more and i wait and wait they just never break up,leaving me bleeding inside..and i dont believe "im too good that guys get intimidated" it's a lie..so yeah im sad..ppl just say "aw ur cute.hey ur so pretty.ur so nice that i cant believe u dont have bf!" but yeah..i dont..are they lying? if im really that good why do i still go home alone everynight?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 January 2010):
Try approaching a guy you like instead. Nice guys tend to be shy, and tend to feel a little scared when they see a pretty girl (we have a tendency to think we're not good enough). So if you see a guy you like, flirt with him, get to know him and find out about him. Don't wait for a good guy to come along.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (19 January 2010):
Just becase you're pretty doesn't mean that you're approachable. And apparently the ones that aren't afraid to approach you are the jerks you don't like...and they pretty much approach any girl that's decent looking even if she does look like she hates the world.
So maybe you should ask your friends if perhaps you look unapproachable. Do you look stuck up? As in, you don't smile, don't look like you're having a good time, arms are crossed, etc. etc. If you look like you're not interested, then guys are going to assume you're not. If you see someone interesting, it's okay to look at him a little longer than usual and smile...you maybe have to do it more than once to the same guy, but it almost always works...if that's still not getting him to come over and talk to you, wave at him and it will almost AWLAYS work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Flirt! I don't know if you do, but it's a trick that will get you both some action. Flirt, smile, laugh, lock eyes with your "chosen" one, scout any area you enter for potential hotties and figure out how to get closer to them. Compliment, go out dancing and get everyone's eyes on you, then sure enough some time later someone will come up to you and say "hey I remember you from here or there" and the conversation is on. And yes, when someone random comes up to you with that line, it's flirting. Any weird excuse to talk to another person is flirting. Its an obvious sign too. So if you feel like talking to a guy (or for the other poster, a girl) make some random excuse up, go talk to her, and she'll know you are flirting. If they are nice and friendly back it means "hello there, I like you too!". Then ask them out, or to join you for a study break (if you study) or anything else thats appropriate.
Avoid hooking up with anyone at parties (or bars) when they are drunk! If they seem interested at the party, ask for a meetup the following day or week instead to see what they are really like, not under the influence of alcohol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Same here I get all the compliments in the world but never any play. I think I spend too much time becoming friends with girls instead of pursuing them. Maybe you do that with guys?
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