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writes:First things first I have a boyfriend ( harry ) but i like a guy ( nick ) who I've only just realized I've liked for 9 years..and he has a girlfriend ( mollie )..We went to a party last night ( house party ) and i got a little drunk, my boyfriend and nick went as well and i kept saying to nick 'will you kiss me?' ( he told me ) and he said no i don't want to do anything while you're drunk because i don't want to take advantage.. and then when everyone went into the room for alcohol i said to my boyfriend that nick was my boyfriend and harry got annoyed ( i was drunk i didn't know what i was saying )apparently i kept saying i was mollie and nick was mine and i shouted out ' i don't love you anymore harry i love nick ' and nick came up to me and said be careful what you say. then i kept falling over and all that.. so i got a Vimtoo drink and went outside in the back garden to try and get sober and nick came with me as he didn't have any drink and we sat out there for about 10 minutes i started sobering up and he was telling me all the embarrassing things that i said and done he said i had a cigarette and started saying to him if he loves me he should take a toke, he said he loved me but not smoking..and i got really embarrassed and covered my face. He hugged me and we caught each other's eye's and started kissing.. then we quickly got off each other because people were coming outside.. i think i love him and i don't know what to doo.. can someone help.. it's either harry who I've been with for 3 months or nick who I've liked for 9 years..:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): You may not think this is very helpful, hon but you have to follow your heart. Love conquers. Some questions to ask yourself while thinking about all of this who treats you better, who would you want to share everything with, maybe yuor first time with...
Honestly pic the guy who treats you right and would d anything for you.
If this were me the friend (nick) would be the one I would pick -- but then again i dont know them or you. If you choose nick would he leave his girlfriend (mollie0?
Youve only been with harry 3 months - how much can u guys really know about each other? How much of a solid realtionship do you have?
Nick is like your rock, hes always been there for you and always will be you two know everything about each other. Every realationship starts off as friendship
I hope this has helped
Good luck
I hope you find love
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 you need to make your mind up. but remember who your boyfriend is now, its likley you will lose him of you breake it off with him to be with nick.
So simple things first ... What do you want? life is an experience and you will learn from your own mistakes, and things that work well as you grow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): i think you should stay with your boyfriend, and still be good friends with nick, and wait until you are bolth single before you consider dating.
did that make sense?
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