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When I go to college I am scared that he will go looking somewhere else for sex.

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Question - (18 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hi..I am 17 years old and me and ny boyfriend are sexually active. Well the problem is that I am a senior and he is a sophomore. I got accepted to college and will be leaving this summer. This means I won't see him as much anymore and I am scared that he will go looking somewhere else for sex. He tells me he won't because he really does love me and wants to spend the rest of my life with me. I just want an honest guys opinion on what they think about this whole situation. I don't want to lose him. I love him so much! Help!

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A male reader, Ti6er United States +, writes (18 January 2010):

The question is not IF he will be looking for sex else where, the question is WHEN you will be looking for sex. Going to college will open your mind to your surrounding and the college life. You will be around your peers and interest. Soon you will forget about your younger boyfriend and you will be ashamed to realize that you're having sex with a minor. Remember there's no such thing as true love, you will see that in college soon enough.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (18 January 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony auntUghh honestly i think you should break up you need to be paying attention in UNI not dealing with a broken heart, I dont see this relation ship lasting. when will you be able to see him etc its up to you but i think its time for a just friends conversation

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 January 2010):

I think so long as you both speak to each other, communicate and spend time together when you can, you'll be fine. It's when communication breaks down that the problems begin. Just make sure you're always talking and seeing each other when you can.

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