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*ardyaus
writes:I once went out with this girl a while ago, it ended last october, but not on a bad note, we just had a break and never got back into it and i kind of want to get back into the relationship with her soon, but i don't know how to go around it or that i should just simply move on and not bother.I really like this girl, more than i have towards any other person i know, she just seems so perfect. I just want to be with her so badly, please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): You have two options as far as I can see. Option 1 - get in touch and ask her for a cofee and a chat, just to catch up. Meet somewhere neutral, PAY for the drinks and ask her how she's doing and what's she's got going on. Have a nice chat with her then slip in some memories 'hey, remember when we did this?', that kind of thing. Let it progress then if it feels right tell her you'd like to see her again.Option 2 - sit down with a piece of paper and a pen. Draw a line down the paper and label each column 'good' and 'bad', then write in the appropriate column all the good and bad things about her and the relationship you used to have. Then review. If it's mostly good, go back to option 1. If it's mostly bad, consider why you want her now. Maybe you need to look for something new. We can quite easily forget the bad things of the past when we're lonely or at a turning point in life. Good luck!
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