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writes:How would you know that your best friend liked your surprise hug or liked it because he likes you? I've been wanting to know if he liked me more than a friend for a long time. my crush was blushing a lot more. I walked bye him and his back was turned so I decided that I would give him a hug. I tackled him for an unexpected back hug and almost pushed him into someone. He was like what are you doing but in a good way. I never gave him a hug before so I hope he liked it. I’m sure he did because he wouldn’t stop talking about it. I wish that I could spend time with him because I think he knows now how strongly I feel about him. I do care about him more than anything in the world. If he just wanted to be friends I might be OK with that. I hope he tells me how he feels about me? I wasn’t afraid to tell him and show him my affection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): i thought he was cool with the hug and kind of liked it! He wouldn't stop talking about it!
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reader, goodguy11 +, writes (15 February 2010):
Well obviously if he can't stop talking about it he must of liked it more than a friend. I don't talk about little things like that with my friend. If I like the girl then that hug would mean something to me and I would think about it alot. Go out to the movies or something have a good time. He might not tell you how he feels about you directly because some guys are just like that. We want to tell you girls something but when the time comes we chicken out. But it's important to let him know that you're comfortable with him so he can confide in you when he tells you something personal. Good luck to you.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 I read your post last time but didn't answer because I couldn't tell from the information you gave me. Then he was being rough to you right? What you intend to do was break the ice but you took him out of his comfort zone. Right now you are using playfulness to cope with the tension. Right now you are playing roles. Let him know the real you, the serious you. How would you describe yourself that no one else knows? Show him different sides of your personality maybe he would open up yourself to you. That way you have a clearer idea if you are a good match. You might be OK with being friends but not him. Guys could read your signals, your hidden desires and you might be unintentionally be pressuring him into doing something he's not ready to while you pretend to be coolheaded.
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