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anonymous
writes:I need help, No one seems to approach me to date... I'm fairly attractive, I take time each day to fix my hair nice ,put some makeup ,lip gloss all that good stuff..am currently eating healthier and working on losing weight.. Im not horrible looking or obese... I always smile at everyone.. doing all the things that make me approachable but ..nothing . As each day goes by its so much harder to keep this sadness from taking over.. I've been really depressed lately because of this being lonely feeling... Im just running out of ideas and confidence... I try to keep busy and hope that "my day will come"... but what if it doesn't? Any tips to pick myself up would be greatly appreciated ... Thank u in advanced...
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reader, gcruz  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 o0o hun we women always have these moments ..its just a phase.. im going through it right now but if you want to talk about it more just message me
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 “The willing, Destiny guides them; the unwilling, Destiny drags them”
You may not believe in destiny .You cannot escape your destiny but if you think and believed that you can create your own destiny , I wish you all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question"Just accept my fate?"... that's like telling me to be glad im getting my head cut off... which at this point doesn't sound too bad... also.. I have to worry about those things like whether "my day will come" or not because I want a family of my own and the only thing I've come to "accept" so far is that I'm not getting any younger.. As far as destiny.. I don't believe in destiny.. People aren't Destined to be crackheads , or Prostitutes and stuff... Just like I'm not destined to be alone..
We create our own destiny.. Im just trying to get out of this rut I'm in.. that's all.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (16 February 2010):
What if it never comes...?
Nobody except God can see into the future and know that answer.
Take each day at a time and enjoy what the day brings.There is nothing you can do about what will happen in the future. Life and death is not in our hands.
Worrying about that question is a waste of time and resource.
Join a church and any social events to meet more people and increase your chances.
Whether you will meet that one or that day will come is all destiny.
Just accept your fate. Be happy even if you are single or married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy personality is very colorful and imaginative , I have been complimented on how passionate I can be about things that matter to me & that I care about.. I signed up to start college and hope to learn more about y people feel the way I do (major is gonna be psychology) I hope to help people like myself.. hope that fives u an idea of what kind of person I really am.. :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Perhaps do more social things if you're not already. And don't deliberately try. Some people say that when you stop chasing after what you want, it appears!
All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Some times in life we don't get what we want when we really want it. have you ever tried some dating sites or have blind dates, it helps sometimes and it takes you away from that loneliness. but do not worry your time will come, you will find the right one when you least expect it. don't stop looking pretty!!! some one out there is waiting for you. good luck!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Can you send me a private message? Are you willing to date anyone or only hispanic men?
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reader, goodguy11 +, writes (15 February 2010):
You want to be approached but no one seems to come. To me that's just unlucky for you. Nothing is wrong with you its just that luck isn't on your side. I'm sort of in the same spot as you but that's because I'm not putting myself out there enough. My suggestion is if you want something to happen then make it happen. Don't wait for a guy to come to you because some are shy or don't bother because they think they have no chance. So just go and introduce yourself to some guys. Bring a friend along for some support:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am seeing a Professional.. But I seem to clash with them..I don't know y.. si soy de USA
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reader, eddie +, writes (15 February 2010):
One more thing, if you feel really sad you should talk to someone professional who is able to help you.
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reader, eddie +, writes (15 February 2010):
Mira chica, sigue asi !! You're doing all the things you need to do to make yourself physically attractive. You day will come. There is no way of knowing when though. Involve yourself with people, join clubs and go to places where people mingle. Make sure you presonality is as pretty as you! Donde vives, en la isla o USA?
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