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anonymous
writes:I'm 18 an african american. the man I'm currently seeing is a 36 year old korean man who is divorced with two kids and has them on weekends. I never expected to be dating a man this much older than me but on the other hand my mom dated my dad when she was young and he was 56. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and we are getting along fine and always have a nice time together, but I can't help but think of what my mom and family would say. has anyone been in a situation like this? what did you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): Only tell your parents if you are sure your relationship is sustainable.
If your going to introduce him and tell your parents about him tell them all the good stuff first like how he makes you feel, how happy you are, then mention age + kids and hopefully they will be more bothered your happy and will see te age and kids as less important than your happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): Just think about it throughly before you introduce him to your family! Are you ready for this kind of relationship who has two kids and way older then you? Your young and alot of times at this age you think your so in love. But if you really really love him then you should tell your parents about him!
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