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*okrgirl
writes:So I've been seeing this guy since the middle of summer and offically dating him for three months. We get along great together but rarely see each other because of our busy schedules. It absolutely kills me. I want him to know that and want to tell him but I don't want to seem clingy or needy. It'd be nice to get a hey just thinking of you message instead of me usually texting him first. So, how do I get my point across that we need to see each other more without seeming needy and clingy and crazy??
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reader, sokrgirl +, writes (6 December 2010):
sokrgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks...I sent him a message about it and we talked and I mentioned that it's hard not seeing him or talking like we used to basically everyother day and sometimes we go days without talking and its hard for me...not sure how to take that but I know we both work and are in college maybe I'm just paranoid and think silly things because we're not talking...
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reader, xanthic +, writes (4 December 2010):
 It won't seem needy or clingy if you mention it casually. 'I'd like to see you again' would be fine.
Clingy and crazy would be: 'Oh my god I'm so in love with you I need to see you RIGHT NOW.'
Complete difference, right?
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