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writes:I am someone with a high sex drive. i am in my early 50's and I have the same drive as when I was in my 20's. I broke up a few months ago and am trying to get back in the dating scene. I know that a relationship is more than sex. Ideally I'd like to find someone with a similar sex drive as myself. How do I find out if a prospect has high sex drive without asking her?I would specially like to hear from ladies, signs that I can read that will tell me if she has high sex drive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): I don't know if there are any solid signs you could look for. "Naughty librarian" types exist and "virginal sluts" do as well... you'd just have to wait to see when the relationship progresses far enough to become "intimate", do what you can to work your odds (making sure she's de- stressed, in a good mood, etc.) and figure her drive from there...
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 That's a tough one. There is no exact way to tell if a woman has a high sex drive. My man was very surprised to learn that mine was very comparable to his. I would say if she tried to initiate sex very quickly, that might be a good indicator. I think the only way for sure though will be to ask her.
I do understand your want to find a woman with a sex drive similar to yours though. It's tough when you have two opposites together. One thing I do know about myself in particular is that when I really, truly care for a man I want sex more. I don't know if that's a given for other women though. Sorry if this didn't help much.
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Have you tried any dating sites that match you up with women based on similar interests? Perhaps sex drive is one of the traits that they ask about. Just a suggestion. Good luck!
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