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writes: Does anyone know what happens when 2 very controlling people date each other? What happens in that relationship? Do they stay together for long? What's readers experiences? Thanks! Any comments would be greatly appreciated!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 I agree with the other two. But, there is a chance that maybe you both would understand each others tough boundaries and rules? Maybe you will have a nice mutual understanding, and then neither of you will have to find someone submissive to control. Maybe you have met your match? Sometimes that can be a good thing.
I wouldn't rule it out, but it does seem a little doomed.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 It would probably fizzle in a matter of weeks , or days.
It would soon become not a relationship but a constant tug-of-war.
In fact, I'd be surprised that two very controlling people would be attracted to each other.
I noticed that when one of the partners is very controlling,it is also because the other one deep down wants to be controlled. He/she may resent it or complain about it consciously, but subsconsciously he/she feels the need for delegating the responsibility for his/her choices to someone perceived as more powerful.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 December 2010):
It would fall apart in a matter of weeks. There is no way that you can have two controlling people in a relationship. It just wouldn't work.
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