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female
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writes:Okay, so I'm sooo confused, I don't know if this guy is interested in me or not. He has a girlfriend, but when I'm around him he says to his friends he has relationship problems. He's mentioned the words future girlfriend while talking to me. He always teases me, he just recently started teasing me in front of his girlfriend otherwise we never talked when she was there. What do you think? Is he just a flirt?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 There is a chance he might like you, there is a chance he might just be a flirt. Who knows! We cant tell you I'm afraid, we have never met the guy or seen how he behaves around his girlfriend.
But what we can tell you is this - it does not matter either way! Because he is in a relationship, whether he is happy or not is irrelevant. You cannot get involved with him while he is with another girl therefore this question is ultimately pointless because even if he liked you, there is nothing either of you can do about it. You dont want to be the woman on the side do you?
And I bet you dont want a relationship with a cheater either! And if he does like you, surely if you got together eventually you would worry he could flirt with other girls whilst you were together in the way he has done with you now? So regardless of what is going on in his head, this relationship cant happen or would be doomed from the start!
So just leave this guy well alone, he is not important and move on. There are much better guys out there who are single, and would not go around flirting with other girls talking crap about their girlfriend's behind their backs!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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