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Why is my long-distance boyfriend avoiding me?

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Question - (20 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ove forever writes:

My LDR has stopped talking to me for a week...when I do get him to talk he tells me, "im fine shit chill". And he stopped 3 and replaced that with calling me bro and brah.....to top THAT off, apparently he talks to everyone BUT me! He even puts ":]" and "3" when he writes on a comment...annoys me.

So here I am, way past the upset and into depression and anger...

I dont know why he's upset. I asked but he won't tell. So...now what? Tell him my feelings on this? Or end it? Or wait more?

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A female reader, love forever United States +, writes (20 August 2010):

love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank u all for answering!!!

I think I will "plan" to hang with him...if his reaction is a no, its over!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010):

hey

Just tell him that you are making plans to meet him.See how he reacts.

You actually don't have to meet him but say it to chk his reaction.He would be genuinely happy if he loves you.

Trust me...don't assume anything.Most people give you the advice to break up once you say there is some problem in your relation.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010):

Sounds to me like he's feeling guilty over something. I would either ask him what's going on or move on. Best of luck.

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A male reader, Western3589 United States +, writes (20 August 2010):

Western3589 agony auntEnd it, if he will barley give you the time of day it's time to move on. An maybe after he realizes your serious he'll talk or start to care. But maily, don't worry about it anymore, end it

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