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writes:I have a guy friend whom I am interested in and who I believe is interested in me. We get along great and we flirt with each other alot of the time. I'm wondering why he hasn't asked me out on a date. Now I know one reason could be that maybe he is not interested. But could it be because we are different races? Because I know him, and if he had any other female friend like myself, he would be interested in her. I'm just wondering if maybe he thinks I will reject him or something, because I'm tired of waiting for him to make a move!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 August 2010):
If you wait too long, you'll never know. He may not know how you feel, so I think you need to be brave and talk to him about how you feel.
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reader, charlie p +, writes (1 August 2010):
Ask him out, no question about it. He may just be nervous because being rejected when you ask out a mate would be worse then normal rejection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): Hi I was in a similar situation, and the best thing is to make a move before its too late. Explain how you feel and if he feels the same, great! Life is too short to wonder what might have happened. I ended up with my best friend, but only after I made the first move. And I havent been happier since that day! we were beating around the bush for months, and I almost lost her due to my inaction, so my advice is make a move before its too late. and yes, it probably is due to his fear of you rejecting him, but only because he probablydoesnt realise how you feel. we men arent exactly great at reading womens signals. Hope it helps. :)
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reader, msvee +, writes (1 August 2010):
 1. Is he currently off dating and relationships?
2. Maybe he's waiting for you to show more interest so he can be sure
3. Why don't you ask him out?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (1 August 2010):
Well maybe he thinks you are thinking the same thing too! and we are in the year of 2010 news flash, and i don't think you would be forward why don't you ask him out~~~ do a picnic!!! and if he likes you you wont have to ask him out again you 2 will be fine. if he likes you the way you like him neither one of you will know until one of you makes the first move.... relax and smile at him and just say would you like to go on a picnic w/ me. and get some real pretty carnations!!! take a real good book and read him a story if your not shy ( trust me ) so pick a book that you know he would probably like? you know his likes and dislikes? and his personality don't ya? get a comedy make him laugh laughing eases the tention.
Have Fun!!
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Ask him out!
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