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I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend. What to do?

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Question - (9 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *anasol writes:

Hi, I'm 24 and the guy who likes me is 25. We met each other 4 weeks ago in a bar. We had so much fun that night, after that he started texting me, we went out for dinner, and a couple of times after that, everything was going well and I was falling in love... maybe you think is so fast but I feel the same from him. 2 weeks after we went to his friends party and drank so much, we has sex that night. I must to admit It was beautiful for me sleep next him and see him next morning. He was still texting me, all the last week he was texting me but I dont know what to think because he never has time during the week, he is always tired, but on weekens he wanna see me, and I saw him this weekend and we got drunk again and have sex. I know that maybe is being easy for him, and I really like him, I do not what to do, how can I get his attention again? I do not wanna be a girl just for his weekend... and I know he didn.t want that but maybe now he wants, I feel him very distant and I really want to talk to him but I do not know what and what to tell him, what should I do, I know he is a good guy but... he is still being a guy... so help me!!!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (10 November 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntWait for him to call.

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A female reader, Danasol United States +, writes (9 November 2009):

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Should I talk to him and tell him how i'm feeling? or should i wait for him to call me?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 November 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntLay off the sauce and sex for awhile next time you see each other. Spend your evening doing something other than sex. 4 weeks is hardly enough time to really get to know somebody. As for the weekend thing, lots of people have very exhausting jobs so the thought of doing any other than sleeping after work is very unappealing, so work nights are work nights.

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