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writes:I was sitting in the cafeteria and the guy I like was sitting at another table with his friend..later another one of his friends walked in with a girl that likes him too. So the girl like stops and doesn't walk over to the guy I like but his friend does, and he tells him to go talk somewhere and they just move away from the table and he told him something in a short time. Then he goes to sit down again, his friend and that girl leaves and then comes back like 2 min later, then they walked over to where i was, and she was play hitting his friend and they we're like doing it on purpose in front of him trying to make him jealous, I looked at the guy I like to see his reaction and he was just looking down at his phone, then i saw his friend looking at me from the corner of my eye.Was he trying to get a reaction from me? His friend knows I like him a lot. Then he and the girl left again, and the guy I like looked up and over at me right after they left. I guess I was sort of feeling "pissy" because I knew that girl was trying to make him jealous, so I looked kind of mad. Then his friend asked him something and he kept nodding and smiling.....then we made some eye contact and he looked a little tense but he was trying to keep the contact...So what was going on here? I know his friend and that girl were doing it intentionally, but I'm not sure what was really going on. The only things I can think of is that 1) He's trying to use that girl to put pressure on me to make a move on the guy I like or 2) He was being a dick, knowing how much I like him, and was really trying to help her get the guy
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I really would advise that the more you analyse body language and overhearing part conversations, the more unhappy you'll be because you don't know what's going on. I'd be more inclined to speak to the boy you like directly and say something like "So and so and I are going to wherever tomorrow night and wondered if it would be something you'd be into?" and guage his reaction from direct contact rather than he said/she said...No point making yourself unhappy for no reason!
Wishing you luck!
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