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writes:Hi all. Im 16, and have just got a part-time job at a restaurant to earn some extra money as a waitress. My mum knows the owners, and sometimes helps out there herself, and one of my mates works there and so does my cousin. My boyfriend has also started working a few times a week. My problem is the head chef.He is 28 years old. From the minute he first saw me, he told my cousin he thinks im fit. I always catch him staring at me. Today i said "why do you stare at me like that its wierd" and he said "im just thinking aboyut how FIT you are". Whcih was obviously a bit awkward. On facebook today, he asked me out, even tho he KNOWS i have a boyfriend, and i told him so. And he said how he felt stupid, and how work was going to be awkward and he wouldnt be able to look me in the eye. My question is, how can i make work not awkward for us? How can i show im not fazed by what happened, have forgotten it ever happened and would like to stay friends?thanks for any help x
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reader, laura585  +, writes (8 July 2009):
Just try not to think about the fact that he asked you out. Next time you're at work just treat him as you always have, no different. It may have to be an act at first but eventually it will come naturally and tho you may always have it in the back of your mind when you see him, it wont bother you as much.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 July 2009):
 I don't trust this guy. He may act shy and stuff, but older men fake things like this to make younger females feel sorry for them and bring them closer to them.
Instead of trying to show how "unfazed" you are (which is exactly what this loser wants, by the way) I'd keep my distance. I'd also let a few trusted people know exactly what he said to me, and I'd save that facebook message so that if one day shit hit the fan, I'd have evidence.
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