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Our relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere - how long do I stay?

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Question - (7 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *ounknown31 writes:

ok so i have a boyfriend , since is summer we havent seen each other since the last day of school.

he asked me out like 5 days ago and its been kinda going ok but lately it's like he dont dont give a fuck. excuse the language. but anyways i have only got 1 text from him. i always have to text him first , and then this one time he called me and i missed it so i called him back and we were were talking about going to the movies and seeing each other, and i was all excited about seeing him so i made sure i had money in order to go to the movies with him. so then i texted him asking saying "hey do you wanna go to the movies with me friday?" and replies saying "Maybey" like wtf?

that made me feel like he's saying he maybey wants to hang out with and i dont know how to take it, should i be mad? should i chill? whaaaaatttt?

and there's something else.

ok he's my boyfriend so should i be bold and call him myself? and if so how many times week?

im just feeling insecure at this point with relationship. see when we were in school it was a non-stop adventure of flirting and we were so into each other and we wanted to go out so bad and now that we do it's just that it's not going anywhere.

do you guys think i should wait untill at least a month to see if it goes some where? cause i mean its only been 5 days so yeah.

pleeeeaseeee people i am really dessprate for advice and any little comment would be a blessing to my eyes so pleasee comment godbless and thanks 3

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A female reader, sounknown31 United States +, writes (9 July 2009):

sounknown31 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sounknown31 agony auntthank you soo much ! i realyy appreciate thee advise! :)

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (8 July 2009):

Why would you call a boy that has flaked out on you he is probably enjoying his summer while you sitting up worried about what he is doing you are to young to put your eggs in one basket enjoy your summer and be a teenager if he feels as strongly as he is suppose to then he will call, Then again maybe he is waiting for you to call him but it doesnt sound to me like he gives a fuck either lol you are taking this relationship to seriously you are young enjoy your life honey.

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