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female
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18-21,
mattie90
writes:hi everyone i have a question. ok my bf can be very sweet at times but lately hes been 2 sweet like if im in pain hed be thr askin me if im ok. and in the morning he'll wake me up and ill be right next to him and he'll say to me you look so peaceful and beautiful when u sleep. its really cute and i love him to death but what has gotten into him? i love that hes givin me all of this affection but its kinda weird because hes usually the bad boy. actually he is a bad boy and sometimes a jackass but he makes up for it. i just dont know whats gotten into him. is he cheating on me? did he find someone that makes him happier? he tells me all the time that he loves me so much and i believe it because ive made so many mistakes and hes still by my side throughout all of it! hes never acted this affectinate b4 and im just worried that hes doing this because he found some1 that makes him happier idk. i need reassurance i guess that hes not cheatin and tht hes just changed! please help me! thanks so much! Reply to this Question |
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reader, Kimaxsi +, writes (7 May 2008):
Has he changed his bad boy ways? Irrespective of your relationship right now has he really demonstrated that he's reformed? Even when he's not syrupy sweet does he treat you well and with respect? Everyone is occasionally a wanker, but is his behavior ever abusive or does it ever border on abusive? When he's done something wrong in the past does he accept responsibility or is he known to try and sweet talk his way out of trouble? Aside from his recent saccharine behavior do you have any reason to suspect he's cheated? Has he ever cheated before? On you or on anyone?
If not if he demonstrated true reform, and treats you well, and accepts responsibility like a man, you know he just might be falling in love with you, men do go all funny sometimes when in love as do women.
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