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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and it's been a good relationship but the problem is he wants to break-up because school is coming up and he wants to focus on it so he wants to have a break till his school is finished which is 2 years.. I know if you love someone you would wait for that person right.. but then I have people coming up to me and saying that what he's doing is stupid cause he's telling me to wait for him and that why would he want to let go if he already has you and that theyre saying how me and him can still be together even if hes in school..like what i told him we dont need to break up like if he needs time for his studies fine i understand i wont disturb him but yeah he really wants to have this break-up.I have this other guy who is fully in love with me and he's getting pissed at him and I'm kind of getting to like him but at the sae time I still love my bf what should I do? Like people told me just let your bf break-up with you then cause that's what he wants and you need some time for yourself too which I kind of do but yeah I'm kind of being stuck now... I love him but there's this guy too... should I let him go and give this other guy a chance and just see what will happen in the end what the result will be once hes finished school? I know it kind of sounds stupid but like I love him and all but I don't want to keep waiting and people are telling me to just let go and have some fun and time for yourself. *sigh*
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reader, Johnnyboy03  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Just tell him if he breaks up with you, then you won't be coming back to him. That you aren't going to sit around and wait for him, and you will see other people.
If he agrees to that, then you have your answer. Go date the other guy. It's not your job to sit around and wait for some guy who wants to break up so he can focus on something else. You have your own life as well, and it doesn't revolve only around him.
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