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writes:I met this guy 3 months ago and I really fancied him. We were seeing each other once a week and spent some time on the phone. Two weeks ago he invited me to teatro. He was acting strangely, I mean he was quite nervous. After the show we went out with his friends. But I am a quite shy person and wasn't very talkative and might have given the wrong impression. He drove me home and since then I haven't heard from him. I didn't know what to do so four days later I sent him text message asking him how he was. But he didn't replay. The next day I sent him another one saying that I didn't appreciate being ignored. Now I feel very sorry for that. My behavior was inappropriate. I am not going to contact him anymore. I am very despressed and don't know what to do. Will he ever contact me again?
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 None of us here can answer that question. But if it has been over a week (has it been 2?) since he's contacted you, it is highly unlikely that he will call. I don't think it was because you were quiet. How was the conversation when he drove you home? As you know, the text you sent the day after the one asking how he was probably upset him. But if he's going to be so inconsiderate as to not answer you, then maybe it's a good thing you are now free to find someone better. He doesn't sound like a good communicator either. I know you are depressed most likely because you are overthinking things and wished you hadn't text'd him but you can not change that and it certainly wasn't criminal what you did so it just serves as a lesson learned.
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