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writes:ok, this question isn't for me it's for a friend!!she has this boyfriend that she lives with. she says he is kinda dirty like he doesn't take showers everyday and brush his teeth and that sometimes he smells. She has been talking to these other guys that are really clean and nice looking and is really starting to like them. She is confused. Should she stay with her boyfriend even though its starting to get hard for her to even have sex with him since he smells?? Or should she break up with him and go with another guy or even be single?? Reply to this Question
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (9 April 2008):
All I can say is if he doesn't shower I would not be sleeping with him or giving him head. I definitely would not want his thrushy mouth near my clit either. Is he on drugs! Cause usually lack of hygiene is one of three things 1 he has not been taught hygiene and personal cleanliness, 2 mental health issues and low self esteem 3 on drugs. Once your friend works out which one of the three it is I would advise her to leave and be with someone who shares her values on hygiene. I see crabs, thrush and the potential for her to adopt his low self esteem a huge possibility. He sounds like a homeless person. Maybe put it to her that way. However, homeless people really do not have a choice with their situation and choices for hygiene he does. Get my drift.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 why doesnt she just tell him to get washed?!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I think she should tell him straight, clean up or ship out!!!
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