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writes:I knew this guy for more than 1 year,we are in the same university.For about six months before we started texting and then now we are in a relationship for a about 3 months. We think lot alike and we love each other alot and we feel very comfortable with our selves. We did lot of kissing during this time sometimes to the extrme but we both know the limits so we never did anything related sex. But my parents are having a problem with our affair so we are not seen each other but yet talk over the phone because we want things to work out between us with our parents blessings. but my boyfriend sometimes stimulates me telling how we kissed and the things we did which makes us feel that we are really kissing and touching our bodies at that time,and we enjoy it because we dont get to do those things anymore, is it bad or is it something psychological? is this true love? or are we having physical pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Hi Hunny
I no different cultures different ways of life, But I dont see your doing anything wrong at all, You are being very respectfull of your parents wishes and trying to keep this relationship going under difficult circumstances..He must really care for you hunny and you him to keep a relationship going this way, I wish you all the best...TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, FireAtWill  +, writes (9 April 2008):
If you two are comfortable with each other that's a very good thing to have. Be sure you care about him as a person and that he's doing the same thing. Guys (and lots of girls too) need a little physicality every once in awhile in real relationships too. Maybe its the sexual tension that feeds the solid relationship you seem to have. Without it it wouldn't have flair right? Communicate. That is all.
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