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writes: I have been going with out with a guy for 4 times already, most of the date he was the one text me and date me out, he's nice and caring, thus, I enjoyed his companion and I believe he feels the same too, otherwise he wouldn't ask me out for the fourth time, however, everything goes on slowly, no hot date.My doubt on him is that, why he doesn't he text me often? He only contacts me when he wants to ask me out for a date.By the way he is not good looking and not rich, just a very normal humble guy, considerate and caring, these are his strengths that attract me most. I'm sure he's not seeing any other girls.At the moment, we are just normal friends, perhaps he wants our friendship to move slowly, get to know each other deeper, in order to move onto the next level, but then why he doesn't text often me like other guys used to do? Can I say some guys don't have the habit to send texts to girls, maybe he is shy or nervous??Please help!Confused girl.Thank you so much!!
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (9 April 2008):
 It could be the other way around- he texts all the time but never wants to see you and wastes your time. I think what he's doing is great, asking you out and taking things slow. This shows respect for you. Personally, I hate it when guys text me when I'm dating them- I find it irritating- pick up the damn phone and ask me out or don't waste my time!! See? He's doing things right as far as I'm concerned! He sounds mature so relax and be glad you are dating someone that doesn't play games. I see this as a good thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Most men hate texting. it's probably just that. If you want to talk to him, call him instead of texting him.
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