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Archived questions from: 23 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I doing something wrongor should I dump him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - ok, I have a boyfriend and i dont know what he is doing half of the time and he does not call me or e-mail me at all. I feel like im doing somethink wrong. Maybe i should not be with him. What do you think?...

She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - Ok sorry if this is long but it's kinda compicated. I'l try to make it short. Ok about 6 months ago i met this woman in the pub she had been in afew times before but i'd never really spoke to her. Anyway most people know each other around here so ...

I've been cheating on my boyfriend... what do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - i am not in love with my boy friend anymore and have been seeing someone else behind his back what should i do ...

I am going on 2 years with my guy and we have been engaged for 7 months. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt if I want to be with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I am going on 2 years with my guy and we have been engaged for 7 months. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt if I want to be with him. He can be a really sweet guy, but he can also be a jerk. He has money problems, but he is really ...

He doesn't last more than 45 seconds when we have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - My fiancee and I have been together for a while..I know that sex isn't everything..However, it is good if done right...I have a situation like this we engage in intercourse half the time there is no foreplay and he doesn't last for more than 45 ...

Is she letting me know these things because she wants to move on, or is she genuinely looking for answers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 39 and my girl is 27. We both love each other, and have been together 5 years. She is starting to question things...she wonders why we don't talk deeply and where are we heading? (her brother who is younger just got engaged). She an...

I really don't know what I should do, should I cheat or keep suffering???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for about 5 months officially we were casually seeing each other for about 4 months previous, we started out as friends but there was loads of sexual chemistry between us all the time. When we first slept with each other it ...

I have fancied so many boys in my life, it's unbelieveable! but nobody fancies me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have fancied so many boys in my life, it's unbelieveable! but nobody fancies me... I really cannot understand why, i always feel i look my best for school and alot of my friends say i'm really bonny, i don't agree with them so much with that - i...

Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...

Been seeing her for 4 months but I can't trust her! Will we make it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months now and we both have said we love each other. Problem i have is im not sure i trust her. i know this is MY problem but i know she has slept with a few of my mates in the past.however,she was dating ...

I got drunk and he got very angry with me! I'm hurt and I refuse to call him! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Ok... I've been dating this guy for 2 months pretty heavily basically we would see each other 2-3 times a week and the rest of the days of the week we would have some kind of text whether call or text. I waited about 7 or 8 dates before I had sex ...

I find it rather disturbing to hear that my gf dated and had sex with her Dad's best friend (42) when she just 16! How should I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - Hi, you speak of age gaps btw 18 - 21 so forth, what about 16 and 42? My gf once dated her dad best mate (her dad doesnt know) he was like a guardian to his 4 daughters all of simular age, n he disided to sleep with her lots. I find this ...

Do men respect women who make the first move?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - What do men think when a woman makes the first move towards getting to know each other? ...

He and this girl mate are taking a holiday together...I trust him but I don't trust her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Ok, well I've been cheated on in 2 of my previous 3 relationships and the third told me straight out that it was all a lie and that he never loved me. I have a bf now but he's planning to go on holiday with his best guys mate and best girl mate. I ...

Guy's views please! Do guys normally make an effort to be nice to their best mate's ex gf (me) or does he really fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - hiya! I fancy my ex`s best mate and i have done since before me and my ex went out. The problem is that he only occasionly comes out with our group and when he does i just want to be near him and cant keep my eyes of him! The best mate is so nice ...

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a month ...

We love each other but he needs to put a stop to the wedding to this other gal. How do we do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - have been in relationship with a gentleman but he is in a relationshp with a woman and he intended to marry her and gone to see his parent and because of me he want to stop the relationship and marriage between them, please we want to know how to ...

I love him but fear I'm way too young for him. Isn't it better to let someone go if you know your not good for them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - hes 9 years loder than me and im just holding him back. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months nearly and wev had more than our share of problems. hes 25 and im nearly 17 and obviously thats been a problem for alot of people. but only recently ive ...

How you tell someone to stop thinking about the future and everything too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering how you tell someone to stop thinking about the future and everything too much? I've only been dating my boyfriend for a month, but we were very close friends for three years before this. I was in love with him through...

Why is it that porn has become just 'acceptable behavior' for all guys? But many of them are not cool about it, when their gf's do it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Dear all, I have a question to ask. Sorry this is so long but I had to get it off my chest because I am very upset about it. When I was young, everyone knew that blokes would buy the odd Mayfair and a right of passage it seems would be your Mum ...

A discussion about having future kids, has caused a problem with us! How do we get beyond this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Hi there, I could do with some advice before I destroy the best thing thats ever happened to me. A month ago I met the most amazing guy and we just clicked, he lives about 90 miles away but when we see each other and talk we get on amazingly and ...

I really like him... how could I get him to notice me? How can get him to talk to me? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - i'm totally, utterly, and hopelessly in love with a guy i have never said 2 words to. everyone told me "it's just lust, you'll get over it"... i've "liked" him for 5 years! and actually know who he was for 1 of those.... i've just been too shy to e...

I am experiencing negative emotions about my married guy. Will this destroy what we have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend. He's married man and i love him very much. The problem is i understand there's nothing he could do that would be like dating a normal single guy. but i cannot live without him and i believe he loves me too. We have been togeth...

We broke up. But I want her back..how long should I wait before contacting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - i was living with my first girlfriend for 2 years and i love her to death. We lived in a really small apartment though (couldn't afford more room), I felt it was becoming too strained and we should live apart. She broke up with me citing she had ...

We've decided to take a break..should he and I be in contact or not at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I've been dating "Ben" for a year and three months. We started out having the ideal relationship, it's been an amazing relationship, there's just 'something' there. Anyways, the past couple of months have been rocky for us. He's been working a l...

He is so possesive, accused me of cheating, and then went and cheated himself!!! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Hi!Im a married woman with my bf for almost 6 years. When we were gf bf he cheated on me and it really hurts. since i love him so much i forgive him. He always telling me a bad words,he insist me that i cheated him where in fact i didnt. When we ...

I'm his first serious relationship, he wants to be with me but wants to date others for a bit!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating this male who I am very close with and we are both serious. Im 22 and he is 20. He sees me as his soul mate and we are both in love and he cares for me. We have good communication and I trust him. One day he told me that he wants ...

Im bisexual... When Im dating someone I always fantasise about the other sex, any advice at all ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I am a bisexual girl, who has always been physically attracted as well as emotionally to both sexes. When I am in relationships (no matter how I feel for the person) I always fantasise about the gender that they aren't and this hurts me greatly ...

Is she using me ? I'm always there for her and we share cuddles etc, but shes texting other guys all the time and wont give us a shot!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - So I met this girl about half a year or more ago, right off the bat I was attracted to her, but I snoozed too long and she started going out with one of my good friends. I became the relationship counselor for her and began to get to know her and ...

Is it worth taking the risk to date your best friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - i like my best friend. if he likes me is it even worth going out because i really like being best friends and talking like 24/7 and i dont want to ruin that. but if we break up then there could be a possibility tht we arnt friends anymore....

A month ago, he found out from others that I like him.He hasn't made any move so am I wasting my time ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, A little while back, I wrote to you asking for advice on my newest crush, Ethan. Well, now, there's kind of a new problem involving him. I might just be flipping out over nothing, but this is something that's really got me pretty wo...

Sex is boring and he doesn't take me anywhere! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - i am 18 years old i know i am in love i have been with this guy for a little more than a year and i knew him before we start dating anyways he always says i love you to me but never ever wants to take me anywhere no movies,NOTHING why we argue ...

I am so busy I have no time for a gf and my friends ignore me...any views?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - i cant be happy in my life there are too many responsibles on me that made me so busy to find a girl is fit to me and i feel that my friends ignore me and i cant tell them about this? thank you...

His penis goes soft when we have intercourse, now. Is he cheating or does he not love me anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Dear, cupid Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months the first two months of our relationship was good,but now when we go to have sexual intercourse,his penis goes soft right away, does that mean he doesnt love me any more?Or ...