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A month ago, he found out from others that I like him.He hasn't made any move so am I wasting my time ?

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Question - (23 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

A little while back, I wrote to you asking for advice on my newest crush, Ethan. Well, now, there's kind of a new problem involving him. I might just be flipping out over nothing, but this is something that's really got me pretty worried.

See, the thing is, apparently, I'm not going to have to worry about telling Ethan how I feel. Word on the street is that several people have already let the cat out of the bag. A little while back, one of my friends talked to him and said, "I know someone who likes you," and his response was, "I already know."

You might not think that it's a bad thing that he knows, and maybe it's not. But what's really got me worried is that he found out, like, a month ago. If he liked me, too, wouldn't he have already told me by now? Do you think he's going to be all weirded out because some girl he doesn't even really know is crushing on him? Am I wasting my time on him? Should I talk to him myself and see what's up? Or should I just sit back and let it pass and then try talking to him again? PLEASE help me!!!

~Ecstatic over Ethan~

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A female reader, myp United States +, writes (25 May 2007):

myp agony auntIf he doesnt know you then get to know him. Start up a conversation, and dont be embarassed that he knows you like him. If you cant be his girlfriend then be his friend, and see if things happen from there. If he doesnt know you then you cant expect him to like you.

Derfinitely talk to him yourself, you cant read minds unless your psychic and maybe hes just shy.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (23 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIn this case, if he knows, and has taken no action to confront it, you're most likely out of luck. Go up to him and try confronting him about it.

DV1

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