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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Have I blown it? Has she gone off me? I don't know what to do now!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - I need help. I really like this girl that I've known for nearly a year but we've only got close recently. We both go to a dance school but at different places and we only see each other on Wednesday's at our Elite dance school. She lives about 30-45 ...

Should I write my number down on a piece of paper and give it to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Hi, Just wondering as there is a girl I like who is in my regular cafe lol, I like her n I think she likes me because of the way we look at each other, If I wrote my number down an passed it to her on a piece of a paper? Is that a good idea or a b...

He wants to wait 5 years to save for a house but I need security here, and I have 3 kids to think about.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - well first off i am in a long distance relationship, we are exactly 257 miles apart..i trust him completely and he trusts me..we are definitely in love..we met online, i drove there to meet him the first time and that was dec 29th..and we spent new ...

I feel like "we belong together" and like "he is MINE". I sound like a stalker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I'm 33 and I've started seeing a guy who I really like. We've only seen each other a few times but have known each other for almost 6 months. We click. The feelings I have for him I've never had for anybody else before, and I'm quite shocked that ...

What is the best way to approach a woman (in a bookstore)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - when you approach a woman at a bookstore, is it better to do so when she is sitting and reading, or when she is looking around at books at the store? surely women do come to look around as well?...

He has no time for me any more and lies about his porn on the PC

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - hi there dont know what to do got a bit of a problem what would you think if your partner was downloading porn on the computer you told him you didnt like it the first time and how it hurt you espicially when he said he didnt until you showed him ...

I'm in love with two people...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Help, I think that I'm in love with two people. I'm a 23 year old single mom. I first got involved with this 33 year old who now wants to marry me after a very abusive relationship with my child's father. He has a great job and everything going for ...

Am I wrong to keep being friends with him or am I just punishing myself doing that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Am I doing the right thing? My boyfriend and I have currently called it quits. It was hard to believe that it could end, he would tell me he wanted to be with me forever and hint at moving in together and perhaps one day having children, but it...

My boyfriend and I fight all the time, how can we learn to communicate properly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I really need help. My boyfriend and I are having differences, and when there is a fight ...he yells so much and then blames me for starting the fight and then goes on saying that i am manipulating him and or the situation and that i am makin...

I don't seem to be able to trust my boyfriend, I know he loves me to bits, it's just me... I can't help it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - i dont seem to be able to trust my boyfriend. i love him and i trust him with my life but when it comes to other women being around him it drives me crazy. anywhere where hes goin out with girls and friends and things, i want to be there. There ...

How can I stop being so coy and gain a bit of confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Hi there, I'm 27 and have been single for around 5 months now. My problem is though that if a girl catches my eye in a club or pub etc. I have a total lack of confidence to approach her and I go clueless as to what to say to break the ice. Say ...

Please help, I feel my relationship is dead.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Dear All I feel my relationship is dead :( Basically, I was in love for the first time with an amazing girl. I had never loved someone like I did her and I'm not one of your average under sixteen teenagers who has an alleged 'girl friend' eve...

Please help me, I don't want to lose someone so important just because I'm scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Im not the type of girl to fall in love... im not the type of girl who falls in love like most of my mates. I tend to stear clear of deep relationships because i know they end up with tears and broken hearts. ive been with my boyfriend now...

I know she likes me and god I like her, I really want to tell her but don't know how to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6211 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were at juniors. For the past 3 yrs i have started to have feelings for her but i've kept them to myself. But these past few months its getting impossible for people not to notice. Everytime i was ...

We are both so insecure in our relationship, will things EVER get any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hey,, ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 months and have already had our fair share of problems. The thing is that we are both so insecure with ourselves that its nearly bloody impossible to keep our relationship goin. Our annerversay was this ...

What's the chance of this actually succeeding and, if not, how long can such relationships last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - This one is long, but my ultimate question after I have described the following relationship is, what's the chance of this actually succeeding and, if not, how longcan such relationships last? I have a 22 y/o guy friend who has been in a long-d...

I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's previous partners.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriends previous partners Okay, I really need the help of the DearCupid Online community with this issue I'm having with my girlfriend of a year. I'm a 24 year old male, in a serious relationship with a 20 year old girl. We...

Three weeks ago my bf's ex-wife had moved back to town with her bf. They had a big fight and next thing you know she moved in with us with her 5 kids.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been with the same guy for a year and a half. Like most relationships it has had some bad times but more good times. We (until recently) had a 3 br apartment and 1 roommate. The roommate has three small kids and works part time. Three ...

How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not to break her marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - I'm involved with a married woman and i do not want to lose her, I really love her so much and she is confused and she does try to forget me to make believe that is worthless trying. How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not ...

She went on to say that in a relationship you should be willing to give up anything if you really love the person in your life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I am a lesbian. Recently my ex girlfriend said she wanted to have a relationship with me. She was adamant that I was the person she really wanted to be with. She has been back and forth between me and another person for years and it was very ...

We have lived together just over a year and our contract is due to run out in 2 months and he wants to find seperate places to live.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have a wonderful boyfriend and I love him to pieces and can't bear to think of my life without him but recently he's started a new job and we dont see each other much as he's working 50 hours at a restuarant then moonlighting at a secuity job ...

He chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me and it really hurt and angered me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I recently had an argument with my boyfriend for not showing up when he was supposed to - he chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me. He apologised the next day, but only spent a couple of hours with me and went out with ...

Why can't we just see how things go instead of just being "friends?" Has he led me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm from Romania, but I am living in Britain while I am at University. I have tried internet dating as I was lonely in the UK and have met several guys, but now I have a problem. I feel really confused. I have been dating a really nice guy for ...

Met online, dated 2months, suddenly he ends it! Should I stay friends with him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi there. Im a 39 year old woman and had a wonder 2 month relationship with a guy I had met online. Last weekend he went to his hometown to a friend's party, and text me the next day that he was not ready for any relationship and wanted us to part. ...

Im with someone new, things are great, but I'm so paranoid he will hurt me like the last guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I'm going out with someone now, and I think i'ts great! He's kind, funny and quite sweet to me. But, I just can't help feeling parnoid that he'll end up hurting me like someone else did to me :( I just want to stop panicking about it, and I do ...

My Bf and my best friend are at logger heads over who spends time with me! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hiya, Please Can Someone Help.. My Best Friend And My Boyfriend Always Argue With Each Other Over Who Spends More Time With Me I Try To Spend An Equal amount of time with them both, but they still find a way to argue over me. One Night They Had A...

We want a 3some with my best friend, But I dont want to lose either of them, what do I do ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - My fiance wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend. My best friend and I have had sex together twice, but he doesn't know about it. I quite like the idea and I am pretty sure she would be up for it, but I don't want to lose her or my ...

Is it possible to have deeper trust developed before getting intimate ? Or are my expectations unrealistic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Ok, i have been approached by quite some girls in my life since i was young. I am 26 right now and my problem has been that i haven't really found a girl who treats me the way i would like her to. Most of them end up trying to dominate me or force ...

Our sex drives are different, I sought attention elsewhere, nothing happend sexually, but now she doest trust me!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Been married to a gorgeous girl for 3 years and we have a 6 month old daughter. I love my wife very much but we have very different sex drives. Mine is high and hers is low. When we don't have sex for a length of time I feel undesirable and I crave ...

I told him I just wanted to be friends, but think I've changed my mind! Do I tell him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - hi im really confused bout my feelins 4 a friend (lets call him "A") (im 20, hes 22) "A" told me he fancied me but i werent so sure coz i needed 2 get 2 know him betta. We then started speakin every day all day (by text msg) and sometimes by the...

I'd like to get him a little token of love to keep for the times we are apart, any suggestions ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi just a bit of advice, I have met the most amazing man ever and it was love at first sight for the both of us and after such a short time we are both starting to fall in love with each other. Our relationship is somewhat long distance (bout 80 ...

What are the phone rules when planning a date together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I met this nice guy, he asked me out for dinner and we have not gone yet.He calls me sometimes and I don't want to scare him away,so i am not sure how much I should call him if at all etc. Can you tell me some phone rules? ...

I'm still in college and my Bf who is 10 yrs older is concerned hes holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I wrote a question the other day, but it ended up being interpreted wrong, so I will try to rephrase it. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years now, and we understand eachother and connect on so many levels. The problem we're having right no...

He must like me to hold my hand... right!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6213 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Ok... I really like this boy... and well we flirt all the time in class. we even got called out by the teacher and she gave us detentions for showing feelings in "her" class. Well heres the thing... were always sitting next to eachother and holding ...

She's told me she's fallen out of love with me and now I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for 7 months now and things where going great at first. Then we started getting into fights and it seemed my only way of settling it was to break up and I have done it 2 or so more times now. So recently we got into a ...

Is it me or am I fighting a losing battle and should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I've been dating a guy for over 5 years. In the beginnging, things were great. He lived with me, told me loved me all the time, and wanted to be with me forever. Now for the last 2 years, nothing. He says he's bitter about marriage and because ...

I seem to date guys for a week or so then get bored. Why does this keep happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - In the past month or so I have gotten in a routine of dating guys for only a week. This is my fourth boyfriend in the past two months. They weren't meant for me but I really like the guy I'm with now. The only problem is it's been a week and I ...