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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I feel so played by my ex gf! How can I make myself feel better about this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - My ex told her mate she was considering having a break from me in order to hook up with some guy she knows online. I confronted her about this, and she said it was girly chat and meant nothing. A week later, I'm dumped. And shes already got plans to ...

He's rather small and floppy down there. If I get serious is this all I am going to get? Is this common thing with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I don't want this to sound shallow or lame but I have been seeing a guy for 6 months. The sex is ok but without sounding too dirty he is rather small down below and when erect it's a bit floppy. You cannot seem to do many positions because of this ...

We spend time 24/7 together for 8 months... now he wants space but not sure I can do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Hi there My boyfriend and i have hit a rough patch, we used to spend 7 days a week together for the last 8 months until it started to cause problems like when he wanted to go out with out me i presumed it was because he didnt want me around anymor...

What are the signs a guy fancies you but it's a guy you're not very close to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - OK, so basically what are the signs a guy fancies you but it's a guy you're not very close to, guys and girls input thanks very much in advance :)...

I'm still in love with him and not moving on. Is it because he was my first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i split up a just over a year ago. our relationship had been very serious and we were both deeply in love with each other. he ended it because he felt too young to be so serious, but left the option open for the future. there has ...

He can say "I love you" over the phone but not in person.. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my bf says he loves me on the phone and i believe him, but to my face he can only manage i like you. He can't explain himself. Whats going on?...

I really like two different guys...whom do I choose ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - hey im 16yrs old nd there are these two guys that i both love with all my heart! the 1st ive been out with before and it didnt work and i was very hurt. we stayed best friends and i never stopped liking him :) now i find out he likes me again. t...

I have problems getting to that first official date with any women I meet. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Can anybody give me some advice? I don’t seem to have any trouble attracting women and consider myself lucky with the number of women I know to talk to. Most of these are women approach me initially. I do consider myself approachable and they thi...

I can't cope with idea of ever losing her! How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Okay this is a bit complicated but I'm going to try to explain the best way I can. I'm in love with a girl. And although there is no way I can find out (you'll have to trust me on this one) I am fairly certain that she feels the same way as I do. ...

Dating 8months and I feel he is going off me! Am I being paranoid or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months but I dont know whats happened to us. At first everything was fine and even up to the last month or so everything was great, but now I dont feel I trust him anymore and everything he does I seem ...

Is this long distance relationship worth continuing with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My boyfirend lives thousands of miles away. We've been together for over a year but living apart. We speak a few times a week and rarely actually see each other. I have no doubt that he cares about me and would like to be with me however i'm not ...

I dumped him by text and ignored his calls and now --I regret it! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Ok... SO im 14, you all probably think im silly and dont no what real love is. But I went out with this lad, i hardly knew him when he asked me out, so first time i said no. He was at my school and in my year but I had never really spoke to ...

Why do I have to obsess over any guy who shows any kindness to me whatsoever?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Why do I have to obsess over any guy who shows any kindness to me whatsoever?! Basically, I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend, although I kind of yearn for one. And for years now, I start to obsess over guys who I start to like. For example, I met a ...

Because I'm very good at sex-he's very insecure and thinks I will stray. How do I reassure him I won't do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I think my b/f is going through a slight insecure phase because I have a high sex drive (usually want it more often than he does) and he tells me I am great at oral sex (the best he's ever had) and when we go out he thinks I look at other men. I do ...

I catch him in a lot of lies and I am concerned! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I am 33 yr old female and a man that is 23 is interested in me. I am secure with myself but worry that he will find someone better and that he is not ready for a commitment. I often catch him in lies and I do not know how to handle it, it is usually ...

Am I bad for feeling that my Dad may think my bf is weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Ok, say me and my boyfriend were out in the living room talking to my dad. I kept thinking "what if my dad thinks my boyfriend is weird" because i do call my boyfriend weird alot and he agrees. Anyways, i am not looking for reassuarance. Am i a...

He won't reply to my emails and I'm not sure why? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - hello again! I've got a slight problem. I've known this guy since I was about 4 (so 15 years) and we lost contact a few years ago, we've started talking again and have met up a couple of times as our uni's are really close.im not sure if im just ...

Bf has jealousy problems with my guy friend! Bf has refused to meet him--what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - long story short , i have a boyfriend and another friend but he's a guy. And my boyfriend has problems(he's jealous) with me talking to my friend. I don't think that my friend loves me because we've known each other for like 3 years and he never ...

I love my girlfriend and she loves me... what's the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - i love my girlfriend and i know she loves me, how do i take it to the next level. marriage is a choice but i dont want to scare her off and i just want to take a romantic step to show i care and love her...

Decided I am moving to another country to start over! Is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - ("I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a ...

How can you tell if a girl is being friendly to you or if she likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - hey how can you tell if a girl is being friendly to you or if she likes you???? we both 16/17 so i odnt know if that make any diffference in noticing any signs...

He says he loves me when he sees me, once a month. Then I don't hear from him! Is he being sincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in different towns. I see him once a month and when we see each other he always tells me that he loves me, but as soon as he leaves, I don't hear from him for weeks. He won't even return my smses. Do you think he means it ...

We started living together and then plans to get engaged fell through! What happened here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I have been a relationship with my boyfriend for two and half years and since October we have been living together. He has rented out his flat and has moved into my house. We have discussed getting engaged and were planning a holiday to celebrate my ...

The girl I really want to be with keeps changing her mind about me! Do I go back to my ex gf who wants me back? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - I've been seeing a girl for six months, but much of that time have secretly pined for another a girl, a shared friend. A month ago this friend told me she had feelings for me, and it was obvious to her I did as well. Shortly afterwards I broke up ...

Despite the abuse, she wants to make a go of it with the ex. Should I give this up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - I was told that a workmate fancied me. I vowed to myself that I'd play it cool as she's got a child from a previous relationship in which she also suffered abuse. I wanted to get to know her properly first before anything else happened and also to ...

Does my gf not value my opinions? Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - I was left feeling felt un-needed, Last night i spent over an hour helping my girlfriend sort out a problem.... not a huge one but still... The problem was: She has work today for a temping agency and at the same time she has a job interview......

I write out my feelings when I feel sad. Why can't the guy I'm dating could read my texts and realise that I'm hurting and I need his attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - when i am frustrated I have a tendency to scribe, i mean sending out sms and letters and notes... to the people especially the ones i am dating. What i have realised is that the more i scribe is the more i push them away, or its the more they do not ...

He was no good for me! How do I get back my worthiness after being with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I think my standards have dropped since being with a guy who was not good for me. How can I regain my standards and think that I am still worth what I once thought I was worth?...

I'm scared that I get bored with my romantic partners way too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I have this terrible fear that I may be the type of person who gets bored with my romantic partners too easily, but I don't know what to do to change my behavior. I got bored with my husband very early in the marriage and had a string of affairs. ...

Found out she was kissing another guy. Is this why she keeps asking for "breaks"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend started dating at the end of our 9th grade year, but the next year she moved 2 hours away. Since then we have still been together and in about 2 and a half weeks it will be 3 years since we started dating. Recently though she ...

Either this guy is not interested or he's very unsure! What should I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Thank you to all who respond. I am dating a few men right now. There is one I like quite a bit. Mostly we email...I did ask if he would like to get together. The pattern is that I do not hear from him for a few days and then he emails back with a ...

His gf dumped him and now--he rarely talks to me! What's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Im going crazy!! Plz any advice is soo welcome here...brutial honesty sure beats tellin me what i want to hear!! Ok...me and my ex started chattin few weeks ago and he said all the right stuff (i luv u n miss u..never luv another more then i luv u) ...

He's progressed to seeing me at best once a week, never at his suggestion! Am I being taken for granted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I was happy single having fun, and strong in myself. I was hoping for the next year in uni when a guy I liked would be back off placement and maybe things would come together. Then he started seeing someone, and I don't know, what with Christmas ...

How do I stop my fiancees accusations, that I do things intentionally to annoy him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my fiancee thinks that im always up to something or doing something intentional agst him. But that is not true at all. For example, he cannot find the digital camera which I have put somewhere and I dont know where it is myself and am honest with ...

How do I drop a hint to my married co-worker, that I really him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I work with a manager who is about 48 yrs old. I like him a lot for his maturity, confidence, and sincere pride in his job and life. I'm a 20 yr old girl, but feel like he is someone I could get along really well with. I don't know if he likes me ...

I'm successful in my studies but have no social life and never even dated... Worried that I have a boring personality (and I'm small)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I wonder if anyone could give me some useful advice.I'd be very grateful. I am 27 year old male, of small build (171 cm tall, slim, from the UK. Soon I'll be 28 years old (July). I am still at university, studying chemistry (well , I am a late ...

He has a new gf and can't see me as friends, anymore. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My best friend, who I went out with 7 years ago, for 2 years, and then have been friends with him for the last 5 years, is not talking to me. He has decided to not be friends with me since he has a girlfriend. I am in love with him, and want him ...

How can you tell if you REALLY love someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - How can you tell when you love someone? Please, I mean I love someone but I want to know how you can really tell???...