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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I try to ignore my feelings for him? Ex's are ex's for a reason right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - i was seeing a guy for 2 months and we only split as i wanted a relationship.. but he wasnt ready for one.... since then he has seen someone else but has now split with her and started talking to me a lot more... complimenting me and asking to me...

I travelled a good distance to surprise her but she wouldn't see me as she was going for coffee with a male colleague...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - What should i do? im soo confused. ive known this girl for 3 and a half months and things have developed quickly. i really really like her maybe even love her. In the space of time we've known each other we've been together once and within a week w...

I don't know whether I should put all my trust and respect toward him because I might end up heart broken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm 15. And I'm in a relationship with this boy for the second time. I don't know whether I should put all my trust and respect toward him because I might end up heart broken. What Should I Do? Am I Being A Little Insecure?...

He told his friend the only reason he broke up with me was through guilt. How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 570 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago....long story...well he went on a school trip to europe and the day before they came back him and everyone else got drunk; he usually doesn't drink or get drunk..so what he did was he started kissing this ...

He wants me to move out after the lease is up then at other times he holds me tight and tells me how much he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - Please someone help me. I have been living with my boyfriend of 7 months and ever since we moved in together things have gone down hill. I mean we do have good times but there are times when he gets so mad that all he mentions is us breaking up. ...

She wanted me to choke her during sex as she said it heightened her orgasm!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - i am not bragging here but i do consider myself to know a bit about sex but a week ago i met a women who asked me to start choking her during sex this is... well very weird to me but i did it, anyway afterwards she said it hightens people's orgasm. ...

Should I be patient and see what happens or call it a day with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - hi everyone, i have recently started seing this guy, but after about a month, when things hadn't really progressed, i had to ask him what was making him hold back because i felt like he didn't seem to want to get into anything. but his reply ...

My boyfriend's best mate is coming on to me really strongly, what should I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I seem to have gotten myself into an awkward situation, I've been going out with this awesome guy for 5 mnths. His best mate is also seeing my best mate and they've been seeing each other for about a year. anyway we were all walking home together ...

Why does he never text or email me when I'm away and only calls for 5 minutes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - Hi all, I am a female of 21 yrs old and since october I have being doing an Erasmus exchange so I currently live in France. I return back to the UK in 5 weeks. I left behind in England my boyfriend of 20 months. He is brilliant to me when I have g...

We have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on March 10th. It was painful but as time went on it got easier. Since then, we have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful. Most times he can't even get half way in ...

Her ex wants her back! She's confused...how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. Her ex has recently got back in touch and says he wants her back. Shes still with me at the moment, but is confused, and I'm scared shes gonna go back to him. How can we over-come this? ...

I'm 17 and I want a gf but they have all turned me down. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - im 17 and never had GF is and i do not know how to feel about it. sometimes it gets me really down as a few girls i asked out have sed no what can i do ...

She has been hurt before and is not ready to date me...is this a good or a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - i asked a girl out that i thought liked me. i still think she does. she said no because she has had bad relationships and want to stay single for a while and that is the only reason she is saying no,is this a good or bad thing??? ...

She's very shy..is there anything I can tell her to get her to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - Hi guys/girls. need a little advice. a couple of months ago i asked a girl out. she said maybe sometime. theres a convenient time in our lives in about a months time when id like to ask her out again, but aren't sure of the best way to approach ...

Do guys assume because I wear rings, one them is from a bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I would really like to know a guy's opinion on girls wearing rings... (although girls views welcome too!) I have this gold ring that has a diamond heart and piece of amethyst in it. I wear it on my right hand middle finger just about every day ...

Why hasn't he called since the night we kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I need help! I recently broke up ( 3 months ago) with my boyfriend of 4 years because I found he was cheating on me. That is really beside the point. The point is I haven't dated in so long and last time I was single I was in college and it was ...

My boyfriend stopped speaking to his backstabbing mates, I don't want them to think it's because of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now,but I'm having problems with one of his friends. his friend knew my bf before i did. they used to spend quite a lot of time hanging together with the rest of their friends.when we first got ...

Should I try to make things work with this guy, even though he's not ready for a commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - Dear cupid I've recently been involved with a guy from my college. We started off as friends, and then started seeing each other for around 2 months, before he decided that he wasn't ready for commitment. Since then we've been on and off a couple o...

Why did she behave so strange and how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - I moved to a new place of work about 2 months ago and met a girl. We started texting phoning flirting and eventually I asked her out. I was gutted when she said no at first and we stopped talking for about a week. Then she started texting me again ...

He says that we will marry and have children, but cant seem to believe him as he wasnt there for me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about the way my boyfriend feels about me. He says he loves me, says he's going to marry, says we'll have children. He says all the right things, like i'm the most important thing to him and he just wants to see me happy. (h...

So confused about our situation, finding it hard to read if he does have feelings for me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - im totally confused about if this guy has any feelings for me. we are not in a relationship, we are very close friends. but that can also be questioned, coz when i first met this guy i was interested in him and i thought he was too, and thats why we ...

I'm dating the girl at works Ex, she already has someone new so why is she so cross at me!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I had a friend at the firm where i am working, not a best friend but a good friend. After a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend, they broke up, for some reason i dont really know. Later on me and her ex boyfriend started to chat and to see each ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me getting attention from other people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - my boyfriend doesn't like me getting attention from people especially guys because my brother is a famous football player...and some of the guys who idolise my brother asked me for an autograph..help i know hes jealous he told me himself but hes ...

Ive been having a sexual relationship with my best friend, help I'm now falling for her!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - Hi, For the past few months, me and my best friend have been in a sexual relationship. i think im falling for her, and dont know what to do..we both dont, because no-one could ever find out about this, and we have always like boys and this has jus...

He hardly ever calls me, surely if he loved me he would be calling me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've been seening eachother almost everyday; the thing is that the year is almost done and he doesn't call me. I know that long distance relationsips don't work but he's the kind of guy who makes thing work. I love him and I ...

She just wants me to be her dirty little secret!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

9 May 2007 (M) - Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. she said she would break up with him for me but once her parents found out they forbid her from seeing me. her parents have spoken to alot of her friends and even a few of our teachers to ...

Falling for my 45 year old boss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - i think i am falling for my 45 yr old boss. i will be 24 yrs old. he is divorced and has a 10 and 13 yr old. he told me he really likes me and finds me attractive. we have been out many times together with my friends and other coworkers. i cant stop ...