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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She keeps saying 'no not now' when I ask her out - should I just give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - I am really confused about this girl. I have asked her out three times, seeing as she has never said no, just not now. Whenever i say anything about a relationship, she always says something about this day and time. For example, she said "stay ...

I am worried that if I apply for this job I won't have time to dote on my BF anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I have worried myself sick over this -- am thinking of applying for a job, but the job specification includes much more time, etc. than originally perceived. I fear the impact on my relationship with my bf will be ultimately negative. I dote upo...

I have left my daughter's father last November. He's been verbally putting me down and he doesn't see that it's really hurting me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I have left my daughter's father last November. He's been verbally putting me down and he doesn't see that it's really hurting me. When we were together, every so often, we were argue. About his whereabouts, who he's talking to on the phone or on ...

I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, he didnt come close to cuming inside me, but since then i have been having pains in my tummy as if i have been in the gym. could i be pregnant?...

I don't know whether to tell him how I'm feeling or not, because if he didnt feel the same way it would then make it really akward to see him every day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between ...

Whenever I see him I just feel a massive wave of fondness over him, why do I get this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - hi im 16 and have been with my bf for about 4 and a half months now. I am so happy when im with him and i feel safe. whenever I see him I just feel a massive wave of fondness over him. why do i get this?...

Later that night, he was drunk and looked at me and called me her name. His excuse was that he was drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I went on a works trip with my partner (his work)and i noticed he flirted a lot with his younger work colleague and she flirted with him. He texted her when she wasn't with us to see what she was doing, and she even rang our room to arrange us all g...

I don't have a problem with pornography per se, but it has been quite excessive with him in the past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - He says I Live in cloud cuckoo land because he hides pornography in his car and I say its not right. I don't have a problem with pornography per se, but it has been quite excessive with him in the past. Some time back I noticed the carpet in front ...

I know how she feels but I don't know how to tell her or when or how to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 527 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - Hi i wrote a question on here on may 1st. Thanks for the reply i got i was wondering if any of you out there could give me afew more replies to suggest what i should do. Hope you can,thanks. Here is my original question. Hi me and this girl have bee...

Can I trust him... is it me he wants and not her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Can I trust him is it me he wants and not her? Hi im engaged to a man i met 7 months ago we had a whirlwind romance and fell in love so quickly he is everything i wanted , we both were out of long term relationships only 3 months and after being to...

I don't want to feel like I am using him as a form of blackmail in any way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Ok here goes. After being apart for just over 12 months my ex and I are starting to get close again. We didn't break up because we didn't love each other but over a silly fight that escalated out of hand. We never really resolved the issue and we ...

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...

How do I become a stronger person through all this and become better in the end???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Hi im 21 and my boyfriend will soon to be 20 in June. I have been with him for about almost 3 months but we been good friends since i saw about...(i meant him when he was in 7th and i was in 8th) But we didnt become good friends til about 11th -...

She likes this lad but won't tell him. How do I convince her to just go and tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - my best friend really likes this lad and she has to much pride to allow herself to go and tell him. ive tried making her but it doesnt work with her and shes a little cautious as hes of a different racial culture to her! what can i do to convince ...

She likes my best friend but he hates her. I love her but she doesn't like me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - how do you know when you are in love or just really happy?? this girl i REALLY like dosent like me in that way i think i love her! =] but she likes my best freind who last time i checked he hated her. =[ what do i do?? peace ...

He dating someone else but I can tell..he's not happy! Should I tell him how I feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - i really like this guy. he's smart, kind and sees me 4 the person i really am. the problem is hes seeing someone and i can tell he's not happy. is it the wrong time to tell him how i feel?...

He was visiting gay sites...is he just curious or is he really gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - my partner of 5 years is everything in a man i have ever wanted, he has very endearing qualities and treats me like a princess.Then 3 weeks ago i found out he was flirting with another women at work and he stated he did not sleep with her and never ...

There is this girl I like but I cannot do anything for her to make her happy or surprise her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - There is this girl I like but I cannot do anything for her to make her happy or surprise her. What can I do? She does not like it when I am spending money in her....

Want to have a break and experience other things... but then get back together. Anyone else feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. Recently things haven't been great between us and I asked him for a break. I have been seeing someone else casually (not behind his back, we have both agreed to take this break) but it's not ...

I don't know whether to just bite the bullet and just ask him out or if he was interested he would text me and should stay quiet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 526 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - There is this guy that i have liked for ages but i don't know what to do about it because he sends such mixed signals. When we send time together at a band we are both in together, we are both very flirty and neither of us can stop smiling when we ...

I didnt shape up, he shipped out, he said no contact, but he conctacts me, we love each other but cant be together.... Confused! Please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Hi There, My name is Kristi and I am new. I am having quite the dilemma regarding making contact with my ex. I would so appreciate any help you have to offer. Here is my story: I'll be 28 next month and my ex is 31. We were together over 2 1/2 ...

I sent a text that read I didnt want him, but it wasnt finished!! I do want him, now hes hurt and doesnt want to know!! Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I really need help on this, I have been recently seeing this guy, for about two weeks now, but we have known each other for almost ten years, now the other night we slept together for the first time and things were amazing, but i was talking ...

Dating 2 months and the feelings are fading, I only tell her I love her as I dont want to hurt her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and i thought i loved her but im starting to have second thoughts. I started to lose the feelings i thought i had for her. I tryed fixing it by changing some things like spending more or ...

How can I tell her my cheating was a biggggg mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - i got caught cheating on my fiance i guess i was running away from the commitment of it all. i cheated and i felt horrible after words but i never told her a couple of months later i got caught, now we're still intimate 2 months later i realized i ...

I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's not terribly overweight, but she does have a fair stomach to her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year, and have been involved a fair bit longer, and I can quite see myself spending a good many years with her. Lately, however, I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's ...