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His penis goes soft when we have intercourse, now. Is he cheating or does he not love me anymore?

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Question - (23 May 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2009)
A female Canada age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Dear, cupid

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months the first two months of our relationship was good,but now when we go to have sexual intercourse,his penis goes soft right away, does that mean he doesnt love me any more?Or that he could be cheating?

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A male reader, Wacko United States +, writes (30 August 2009):

Dear "A female age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I am a man that has always prided myself as not ever having this problem, but here latly I have had it some and as Kenny "The Superman wearing outfit guy" said booze will affect it, even though you did not say ya'll or he was drinking. If he needs to stop to put on a condom it might take away the erection because it takes time. Help him out by having it already open and ready to put it on him youself, fast I might add.(It happend to me 2 times after I was really drunk. Tried it with an older woman who I wanted very bad for months and when it came time for action (putting on the rubber and doing the dead) I was missing in action down there. Don't worry, it is not you, tell him to go play with himself for a few minutes on the internet XXX video sites (you may or may not want to ask him or watch him while he is doing this because some men get embaressed) and all will be good in the universe again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008):

Well honestly i'm currently experiencing the same problem right now and i really feel he is cheating on me. We have been together for 2 years and just since recently im having this problem. I don't know what to do and i hope your problem turns out better than mine.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008):

Well honestly i'm currently experiencing the same problem right now and i really feel he is cheating on me. We have been together for 2 years and jus since recently im having this problem. I don't know what to do and i hope your problem turns out better than mine.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

No, to both. If he shows enough interest, your worries are over. Experiment a little. Try oral techniques, for instance. Be patient. He'll be "cumming" around in no time!

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2007):

love-him agony auntchick dont worry i realy and truly dont think he is cheating, and i dont think he will be going off you -loving you-, you havent been that specific on sayin wether or not you still manage to have sex? like kenny said, alcohol is something which can change an erection dramatically.. even if the person didnt love you still, he would still find you atractive.. maybe hes more tired than usual? maybe you are having too much sex, too often? babe there are plenty of reasons to why his penis may be going soft. mail me if u wana chat x x x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2007):

kenny agony auntThis is really common amongst men, and can affect anyone at any time. Try to introduce some sexual techniques that you have not tried before, experiment with oral sex to help him sustain his erection.

Also alcohol can be a big contributer to losing an erection, what we call brewers droop.

I really don't think he is cheating, and its not because he dosen't love you, if you are really worried and it keeps happening pop along to your local GP and get hin checked out.

Good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007):

we are very interested in sex, but my husband is a diabetic patients, when we started to do intercourse, his pennis becoming soft. pls advise a solution for that

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A female reader, luckygirl84 United States +, writes (23 May 2007):

luckygirl84 agony auntI do not think he is cheating on you. A penis has a mind of its own lol. It cant be hard all the time. His penis could be soft for many reasons which includes the fact that maybe he is not that horny at the time. Try teasing his head. But I would do not think he is cheating on you and i believe he still loves you. As I said a penis has a mind of its own.

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