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writes:right well i done stuff with a boy the other day while my cousin was on holiday, me and my cousin are both 15 but she is older she is very protective of me and goes mental when she finds out i've done stuff as she has never done anything, she comes back tomorrow what should i say to her, its already gone round the school :-( help!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 It has gone around the school? Whatever happened between you and that boy it should have stayed private. You are at the age where reputation is very important and things like that can damage it so in future make sure you can trust whoever you are with, unless you wanted it to be spread around, I would be annoyed.
As for your cousin, why are you so stressed? So you fooled around with a guy? You are your own person and you are free to do as you please, your cousin has no say in the matter, I understand she is trying to protect you but am sure she won't make a huge deal out of it, at the end of the day you are both the same age, so you should both be on the same wave length.
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reader, Uncle Charlie  +, writes (6 October 2011):
First of all, why should it get around school? If it does get around, you should be angry with the boy that blabed. Now don't get me wrong, I am not an advocate of teenage sex, yet I am not stupid...teenage sex will happen, and there nothing that a parent can do to stop it. That being said, you seem very concerned on what your cousin will say. Why is that. I know that you respecct her and her opinion but you have a brain of your own, exercise it. The best advise that anyone could give for any relationship (weather being a boyfriend or a cousin) is to be honest. If it happend, then admit it. Besides being disappointed what else can happen, she probably will not disown you.
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