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writes:I broke up with my ex at the beginning of the year after I had suspected that he and one of my close friends were having a thing behind my back. He never admitted to it but he also never denied it. He told me he just doesn't love me and that was the end of it. It hurt like hell after being with him for 2 years and to add salt to an open wound he started dating another girl a few days later and he's been with her ever since. I tried to make contact with several times at the beginning of the break up but he just ignored me. Eventually I moved on with my life and forgot about him I have a boyfriend that I'm happy with but a week ago he contacted me and told me that he misses me and that he hopes that we can build our friendship again. I don't know if I should pursue a friendship with him or just ignore him?
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reader, meccamega  +, writes (24 October 2011):
So what made the ex change his mind after so long? Is he only jealous because you have a new bf? I would tell the ex where he can shove it. He chose to leave you, he should deal with the consequences.
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 I don't think you can build a friendship with someone who has screwed you over. Believe me, I have tried this route myself and I can tell you it has failed each time. Resentments and unresolved question will always surface your mind. If you're over your ex, don't welcome complications in your life. Trust me, you're better off with no contact.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 It sounds like you both have solid relationships. If you are truly over him there is no harm to become friends. Ask if he is interested in meeting your boyfriend. Suggest a double date. Do this only if you are curious about how he's doing in life and not because he wants you back or you want him back, or you want to make each other jealous.
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