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Fat Admirers - Where are they? Do they exist?

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Question - (29 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The idea of being in a relationship with a FA, or fat admirer, has always... intrigued me. I've met one in the past and ever since I've been incredibly interested in trying such a relationship out. I can't seem to find many more, which I'm assuming is either because a) they don't exist in large quantities, or b) they are too shy to come out of the proverbial "fat closet".

Before you chastise me for being a nut case, I know it sounds freakish and I know it sounds weird, but people also jack off to pictures of feet and adults wearing diapers. So, whatever floats your boat. /tangent

I was just wondering if any FA's exist here or if anyone knows of a good place to meet FA's on the net?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):

Well, there are lots of us out there, and yes, for some of us it was like a "coming out of the closet" process, specially if you like SSBBWs, which is my case. I'd suggest you join www.dimensionsmagazine.com and www.ssbbwsingles.com.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011):

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I google and google and I don't seem to find what I'm looking for, hence the question, haha.

It's hard to explain, really. Of course I want a relationship with someone who likes my brain, personality, and intellect! And if I can have both, that's awesome. However, every relationship I have been in has always been, "Oh, don't worry, babe. I can look past that" and I've always wondered why it, my fat, body, whatever you wish to term it must be looked past because I really, really like my body, unlike 90% of the bigger girls I know. I enjoy my curves/rolls/fat/sexy lady lumps (as Fergie would say, haha)/whatever term you wish, the softness, the texture, the look, everything. And in the conversations I had with the FA I knew, it seemed like he just understood exactly how I liked myself on a level that no one else ever has.

Now, I don't want to be in a hardcore feeding, let's get bed-ridden relationship. That's entirely insane. I just feel like I can never find guys who are into me the way I'm into me, which sounds bizarrely conceited.

Does this make sense? I feel like I'm sounding crazy... And I want the site. I'll PM.

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