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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am not a good kisser. I admit that. I don't really know what I am doing. Women I have been with have either told me that outright or in indirect fashion by saying things like "I felt you were pulling away" or "I felt you just gave me a half-kiss." Some have said that I "kiss like a little boy" or complain about my sticky lips (not sure what to do about that). I guess I just need more practice. When I am with a woman who is very aggressive in kissing me then I can give in to her and it is very enjoyable for us both, but for the most part women expect me, as the guy, to take the lead and if the first kisses are bad they want no part in Round Two. I imagine that with more practice (hard to do when women hate kissing you and don't want to teach you) I will get good at kissing women on the lips. I have read guides to it and I get the general idea. I have been able to kiss women on the lips satisfactorily, although French kissing is something I still struggle with. My question has more to do with kissing women on the body, such as the neck, the thighs, the stomach, the breasts. I have read many guides to kissing women on the lips, but I have never see anything written about what the heck I am supposed to be doing elsewhere. Sucking, licking, puckering up? I mean, I get that it's supposed to be some combination of the above, but I have no idea what the hell I am doing and the women I have been with agree. How the hell do most people learn this? It's not that the women I have been with are just so much more experienced than I am. I must just be lacking some innate instinct. As I kiss her I wonder what the hell I am supposed to be doing and I can tell her mind is not focused on my attention and thinking "Let's just have sex, because this is not interesting nor sexy."I get very frustrated when I kiss a woman on the lips and she wipes it away or when I nuzzle her neck and she turns away from me in a displeased fashion. These are women who like me and who will have sex with me. They just hate how I kiss! I am not sure what to do! I thought about hiring an escort or someone to teach me, but from what I understand the one thing a lot of escorts do NOT like to do is kiss their clients! Also, how do I go about telling as escort that all I really want to do is kiss for $200/hour? Laughable.This seems so silly, but I need to learn to do this and I seem to need a lot of help! How can I learn?
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reader, BJacobs +, writes (31 May 2011):
 well im only 16 but i would just forget that you "suck at kissing" and consentrate on the kiss itself. Your pritty much settng yourself up for failure when you tell yourself you suck at it. For example when im really nervious about something i tell myself i got this, or nothing is going to stop me from catching this pass(football) and i end up in success. Be confident and passionate and im sure things will look up.
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