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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I really don't know what to do! I'm in despair writing this. I'm close friends with a guy and have been a brilliant friend to him. I really like him and he knows this. We spoke about dating and he said he didn't have that chemistry with me but valued me as a friend. Then a few days later said something really different like he wouldn't know if we had a connection as we hadn't been around each other socially enough !Anyway I'm basically on tap for him and he knows this. I feel a fool but it's because I care so much. He knows I'm always there for him. I've helped him no end with everything yet feel so unappreciated. He hasn't been straight with me either and lies often about having stuff he doesn't like a sports car or a business with 60k even though he's always broke.Now hes befriended a girl on Facebook and has shown me 'personal' photos which he basically took off her profile, a few friends said hes lying and they're not dating. She is really pretty and I'm not gonna lie upsets me. I know they chat by messenger but he seems to enjoy rubbing my nose in it about her and I don't know why. All I've ever done is been there for him so why does he do this ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): Three words; BECAUSE HE CANYou have allowed him to use you and he has taken full advantage and has now found a girl who he is attracted to. He is not sexually attracted to you..
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