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male
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36-40,
*olidus
writes:question, so I asked out a female friend of mine that I've had a crush on for a few months. I asked her even though I knew she was working and volunteering this weekend, I just did it anyway. I think subconsciously I just wanted to throw the idea out there for her to let it marinate. I told her to clear a spot on her busy schedule for me or whatever and she said "Not likely that I'll have too much free time but I'll let you know!"Which I don't feel is her blowing me off because she does work a lot and she's cleaning up a beach tomorrow because her sister organized this environmental thing (which she helped out with last weekend too) So my questions is how do you guys think I should go about getting with her now? We're friends, but I want to be more without scaring her off.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 If am honest with you her reply doesn't really show much hope for you. I understand that she is busy but if she was interested she would have said the next time she was free she would let you know. It sounds to me like she is not interested in you like that am afraid. If you want an answer and quick why not just say to her you like her and ask her to be completely honest with you. Explain to her that if she is not interested you can still both be friends.
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