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I am torn between two guys and don't know whom to choose

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Question - (21 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2011)
A female India age 30-35, *wasti writes:

I have a bf for the last 1 year. I fall in love with him for his good nature. So i only proposed him. Everythng went well for 1 month. After that, he started ignoring me. Situation became so worse that he even didn't talk to me. I was so depressed to react. But after 7 months, he again started talking to me saying that he was mentally disturbed in the past months. Now, its 4 months and we are talking. But things seems to have changed. He says i love u but there is no feeling in it. He usually texts me for two reasons. First, if he needs something from me. And second, when he wants to have non veg talks. I can realise, he doesn't love me. He is just using me. But sometimes he says things that confuses me that may be he loves me. Now, there is another guy I am liking. This other guy loves me very much and also cares for me. I want to have relationship with this other guy. But for that i have to break up with my bf. But i don't have any issues or arguments with him. How can i say him about breakup? Or, should i really breakup? Should i say a yes to the proposal of the other guy?

Please suggest something. Am too confused what to do.

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A female reader, Swasti India +, writes (4 June 2011):

Swasti is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Swasti agony auntThanks for the help.

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A male reader, Iykeiscool Nigeria +, writes (21 May 2011):

You've said it all yourself, you know who loves you, who's using you, who's pretending and who you like.

In my opinion, i'd say go for the second guy.

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