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Archived questions from: 23 March, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I just give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I'm going to set the scene here, and I'm sorry if this is a lengthy question! Okay, so I am a freshman in Highschool; I started a couple of months ago, but two months before school began, I was enrolled in Marching Band. I loved it; every day we...

I will always love my ex. But should I try to move on now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I met the most amazing guy three years ago and fell hard for him. He was my soulmate if there is such a thing. I felt like I knew him all my life and he was everything I ever wanted. We broke up because of his drug problem two years ago. We sti...

Should I wait until he makes a move? He's read, but also ignored by message

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I use to date this guy for 7 weeks. And I fell in love with this dude and he did too, but he broke it off. because my mom is so over protective. And it sux. I really want to be back with him. I talk to my mom about how she is so over protecti...

Is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hey! I've been going through Freshman year looking for one thing: a guy. I've seen tons of cute-faced boys but none really notice me. I'm a little overweight, with non-highlighted hair, and no second/third/fourth piercings on the ear. The only thing ...

Sweet man or sociopath?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - if a man is charming does it always have to mean that they are trying to schmooze? my new guy is rather over the top charming towards me, i have told him it makes me uneasy and he said he flatters me coz he wants me to like him. he is not a silly ...

After rejection, I now feel nothing

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23 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone... I would really like some help because I am feeling very confused and I could use some good advices! Well, I was 10years old when I first fell in love with my best (girl) friend and I made the terrible mistake of telling her. She frea...

Why is he becoming more sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hey there! Okay, I'm in a sticky situation! I started Highschool not too long ago and within the first week, I started to like a sophomore boy I met. He's so gorgeous, and very sweet and calm, despite being one of the popular skaters. He was a great ...

Would it be wrong to date my sister''s teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Im 19 years old...lets get that out of theway and i had this 8th grade history teacher that was literally gorgeous!!! My little sister has him now and hes only 31 now. I have talked to him (and flirted a little) when i saw him while picking up my ...

Obsessed or massive crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - There's this guy. We aren't really friends or anything but we have spoken. From the conversations we've had, he seems smart, interested in you and what you have to say and has a great sense of humour. I've known of him for about 7 months now, but ...

How much is too much when not official?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - hello everyone! im seeing someone, have been for a few months now, we are exclusive but not official and because of circumstance have decided its unmanageable to make a proper commitment to each other. i really really like him, but the trouble is ...

Introducing the kids - good timing vs. bad timing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - My birthday is coming up in the next month, my BF is fairly new (4-5 mos) and he hasn't met my kids. I'm waiting to see if this blooms into something serious. I'd like to invite him to my home for my birthday dinner with the kids since he's now a ...

Strained relationship with mom ever since I came out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - I can't stand it! I feel as if I can't be myself around my mum! Ever since I came out last summer We have had a strained relationship. Before she would ask me about girls and stuff and I know it is an adjustment but now I don't feel I can talk about ...

Help with bro-code

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - Need help with the bro-code :S One of my close mates R has a younger brother T and me and T have been flirting quite alot, by that I mean touching, looking at each other and non stop eye contact. R isn't the most comfortable with me being gay but...

Give me an idea for a text to cheer up my bf!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - What is something really sweet that i could text my boyfriend to help make his day better?...

I wasn't ready for a relationship so we agreed to be friends--but now he ignores me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I met this guy recently and found out that we've crossed paths several times before we actually met. We're in the same program in university, we share the same group of friends, and we've been to the same get-togethers and parties. ...

He wants to marry me, but I am afraid that will ruin our open relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - hi ok ive been in a relationship 4 almost a yr. in the beginning it was up and down and we fought alot, then we had a huge fight over something really small and then a month later we made up because we both couldnt live without each other. a...

Should I date a guy who is recently divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - hi this is gonna be quite long and a bit weird so im sorry. ive been friends with this guy for years. i mean we grew up together; he was an older brother. he got married out of necessity because he got this girl pregnant and he felt bad so they...

My friend is always on my mind -- I think I'm in love and I don't want to screw it up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - I think im in love with my flatmate, im not sure how she feels about me. My other flatmates and friends keep saying we look like a couple. She is always on my mind and when she is around im always happier, she always comes onto my room and we talk ...

Easter and a new relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - So I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We're new into the relationship and Easter is coming up and I just want to do something cute and fun for him. I bought some small plastic eggs but I'm needing some help on ideas to make it fun. Should I put notes in ...

I just want to know if he's interested so I can ask him out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - So there's this guy and he's always around me everytime it's lunch at school. One day I smiled at him because I always see him or his friends gesturing to him pointing at me. So a couple of days later he walks up to me looks me in the eyes and slo...

Is he interested or trying to play me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've known this guy for about a year or two and I've started to develop a crush/obsession. Some of the girls in my clique have developed feelings for some guys, all of whom hang out together; I've recently told them I have a crush on one o...

My ex goes to lengths to conceal his identity, but paints me as untrustworthy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I am very confused over trust issues due to the level of secretcy my ex will go to to conceal his identity,his comings and goings,his whereabouts. he constantly uses any information i disclose or he finds that he thinks is related me to use agai...

Is this a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - My gf and i have dated for 4 years starting in college. We got along great, even after the initial infatuation had worn off. We were together all the time and truly enjoyed each others company. We were each others first real loves. We recently ...

I am a masturbation addict!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

23 March 2011 (?) - About 2 years ago i was in a very good relationship which lasted 9 months. In that relationship, the sex was absolutely unbelieveable. We could please each other any time, all the time. But when we split up i wasnt having sex so, for the first ti...

I want to ask her out, but there's only 3 weeks left of school

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - ok so there is this girl who lives in the room next to mine at university in residence and she and i usually talk if we see each other or waive if we are in a hurry. anyway about 2 days ago, my roommate and i want for dinner and i noticed that she ...

I want to show my sick ex that I care, but it's difficult because he has a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, hoping for some more excellent advice. I have an ex who isn't too good at the moment. He has major back problems and premature arthritis due to a bad car crash 5 years ago where he broke his back by crushing a lower vertebrae. He ha...

If he loved me at all why would he treat me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I'm 20 and have a 7 month old son. I can't seen to get over my boyfriend, when he says he's leaving me I feel so heartbroken and upset I don't know what to do with myself. He always come back and hasn't said he's leaving in a while but today he said ...

Are there second chances at love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - First off, I want to apologize for the length of this question. I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in December because he decided he wanted to be with someone else. I was in a depression for close to 2 months and anytime I tried moving on,...

He has a girlfriend and won't dump her for me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - i dont know how to word this so long story short.... the guy i like likes me to, he says he loves me bt he has a nother gf but wont dump her........ What do i do...

I love him but can't keep up with his hot and cold act!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been living together for about 5 months now and I am so confused. I love him so much but I don't understand why sometimes he doesn't show that he cares. Sometimes he makes me feel so special and other times like I don't exist. He...

Why is he being so distant toward me? What am I doing wrong? Is there really a reason why men do this sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - This is going to be long, but I feel like I have to let this be known, heard. I'm tired of hurting. But I don't want to end this relationship. I love my Freedom (well, his name really isn't "Freedom", but to protect his privacy I will call him, ...

Guy and feelings--how can we get you to open up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I tell my guy I like him and that he turns me on but I don't get that from him. The other day I got him to say he likes me and he said that he's already told me that he liked me and cared BUT I certainly don't remember that. You ladies know when a ...

Why am I jealous of my son spending time with his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - My 16 year old son has his first serious girlfriend whom he has been dating a few months. At first I liked her well enough but lately they spend so much time together I have been feeling jealous of the time and affection that he gives to her and not ...

How do you tell a guy you won't go any further in the relationship until he is well off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I met a really nice divorced man a while ago and we started a relationship in which we were both happy, and even discussed marriage and children. However lately I have realised how much it actually costs to raise and school a child. (I don't have ...

Like me? or just playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - I met a girl last saturday through a group of friends. Since then, she has shown alot of the signs when a girl likes someone (given me her number, texted me, written about random stuff on my fb wall, commented and liked some of my fb stuff, ...

Why does boyfriend keep me a secret from his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for the last 5 months. This isnt an easy relationship as I dont get why my bf never asks me to meet his family. We live really close to each other but he never asks me round his house unless there no one there. This guy ...

Is it worth trying things with him? His ex wants him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I like him, he has definitely been flirting according to all body language signs and some comments and things, all my friends have been trying to get us together, but I just found out he is still in love with his ex who he broke up with a couple of ...

Why do I still have strong feelings for my ex? Should I break it off with my current bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Ok, so please bare with me it's kind of long. I am a gamer chick who loves to play role playing games and live action role play "Larp" and when I first started back in July 20, 2010 I met up with a guy who was older than me by about 12 years. Well, ...

Younger sister needs advice. To date or not date the ex of her older sister? SWOT analysis please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - A lady in the same family dated a guy, and they later broke up, because the lady left him for his friend. now the guy (who was dumped by the above lady in the family) wants to date the younger sister of the lady in the family. what is the yo...

Is this guy in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - When a guy tells you he 'loves you to bits' does he mean he is in love with you or loves you as a friend? Ive being in a relationship for 5 month and my bf has being telling me this. He has only said 'love you' a couple of times. As I dont see him ...

A man always knows whom he wants, right? else why the delay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - My best friend and I have known each other for seven years. He is five years younger to me, though we have never felt the difference in any way. Lately the past year we have been hanging out a lot, almost every other day. Around 6 months ago i ...

I feel I'm wasting my life with my girlfriend, I want to date others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. Im really was just wondering what your opinions are, Im twenty and I dont really go out much, because I lost most of my friends because of my girlfriend. Weve been together for five years and really I know I shouldnt have gone back a...

Do gay guys flirt with straight girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - So their is this gay guy i work with and I am head over heels for him. We flirt a lot together, but my friend from work told me that he is gay. Now i am just so confused because he was flirting with me, playing with me, tickling me, hugging ...

How do I make cheating boyfriend realize I may not always be around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - my ex tells me he doesnt want to be with me right now? what does that mean i love him a lot but i need to be strong how can i make him think that i aint going to always be there? i mean thats why hes says not right now right? i mean the only reason ...

If he really loved me...why did he travel so far away from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - A man that I have been seeing for over 3 months has just gone overseas for between 6-9 months. The night that I met him he told me that he was going away in March so I have known the whole time that we have been seeing each other that he was going. ...

I am 18 and I don't feel anything when I am with women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. I'm 18yrs and it's like i've got issues with gals. I don't seem to fall in love with anyone, like i dont have feelings or something but still i feel incomplete. My question is what are the feelings i should get when approaching a ...

Have I permitted him to keep me on a string? I'm confused as to why he declared his love, yet made no attempt to take things further...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I have been mad for my guy friend for years. Since we were kids. We never dated while we were at school. We saw each other through our other loves and losses, moved in different directions, and lost touch. Neither of us married. A few year...

How should I deal with my obsession for a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - I dated a girl a while back (we stopped dating cause our schedules didn't really match up) but then I graduated, and she graduates this semester. But I don't have a car, and shes like 40 minutes away. I haven't seen here in months, but we email very ...

How do I get him interested? And why can't I stop thinking about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old and currently 16 weeks pregnant, with a guy who wants nothing to do with me or the baby, but thats not why im here. Over a year ago i started talking to this guy i've know for a while,grew up in a small town, and we hung out once...

I broke up with him, but like his younger brother. Should I now tell the younger brother I like him better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Last year, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I felt that he was too clingy and needy, stupid reasons I know, but when he got another gf, I had a freak out. We got back together (kind of) and have been really close, but when we firs...

We just broke up. Any ideas of what she might be thinking or what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and we're no longer talking. She said a day after breaking up (in an annoyed tone) that she doesn't love me anymore and there's no chance of us ever being in a relationship again. I did noth...

What are the signs a guy might be interested in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - What are some of the signs a guy is interested or attracted to a woman if he is not personal with her and they are just merely aquainted, how can she tell? what are the signs? and also what if he is shy? how would she know then?...

Why does he put his friends before me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - HELP "/ my boyfriend is 18 and acts like a idiot and goes out drinking with his mates (im 16)and he has no job and lives on his own he always has people around his flat and in his car i want him to get his act together and start acting like an ...

My dating life is in shambles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4794 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm 17 and I work at a fastfood place and my dating life is in shambles. I meet this African guy that I work with he's from west Africa and at first he would always look at me, smile and talk to me so I thought he liked me but at the time I ...

Is he leading me on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - There is this guy I really like and have been making a lot of effort to get to know him better and spend time with him. There is a considerable age difference and I am confused of his feelings for me. We seem to discuss and share a lot of interests ...

She thinks I'm fat and ugly and my penis is too small...yet she just wants me to be there until she finds someone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - hello , do i ever need help . okay i met this girl 6 years ago - she was involved with a guy that was a deadbeat and now is a deadbeat dad of 2 ... anyway we became real close friends and we spent more time together (plutonitcally)?...

She has already told me she loves me, and that she wants a long term commitment with me... So why the hell can I not be happy when we are apart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - Well I met the girl of my dreams about 3 months ago. Things have really been very good. I thought I had been in love before, but being with this girl has already shown me (in such a short time too) that what I thought I knew or understood about love ...