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Dating: Help and advice

Am I addicted to him? If so, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - When you read the title you might probably think that I am promiscuous and flirt all the time. No, I am actually in a normal relationship with my boyfriend. I just need help because while the sex is very good, I feel empty the next day. My boyfriend ...

Am I wrong for wanting to spend more time with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - i am at home for a week i have been away at school... i spent time with my boyfriend this weekend but it didnt seem like enough time... now i dont want to be the clingy selfish girlfriend so i didnt mention wanting to spend more time with him when ...

He is so quiet and makes me do all the work! Is there a chance he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Pls kindly take the time to read through,i'm sorry it's this looong. I've been attending this new church for almost a year and 3 months now with my younger sister and we are always together in church. After about 4 months of attending this church i...

He doesn't express his feelings anymore ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - It was great at the beginning. He would tell me the most sweetest things, like why he likes me and how much I mean to him. And yeah, he does say 'I love you' to me. But not much more. But yesterday I poured my heart out about how much he means to...

Dating a momma's boy... Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend does not see the harm in talking to his very protective mother about all our problems and assuming that i will blindly follow what his mother thinks, he thinks my mom "is full of crap" when it comes to relationships. his parents are a ...

Do I join his crossdressing website?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Just a quick question: my boyfriend is a crossdresser and I don't really have a problem with it, he doesn't do it that often in any case, besides it makes sex more fun. My problem is he is insisting to the point of guilting me, that I join his ...

Why does he date me but yet still go to online dating all the time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Dear All, I need your advice here, as I really can't work this guy out. I met a lovely guy online 6months ago, (he's 45, I'm 41yrs, we are both single, he never been married, me divorced, was married a long time ago)we chatted for about a mont...

Ex tells me not to become the town bicycle. Why does he care who I date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I've just split up with my partner. We have kids together. He is living in our other house. He is constantly asking me if I'm dating and asks me "please don't become the town bicycle". We've only been split up a month. It's not really his business ...

Now and then! Next move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - Dear cupid I'm a 21 year old male that met a girl 4 years ago back. then she was to young for me. she is 16 now and damn she is pretty. last weekend when I saw her my heart nearly stopped. 4 years ago she was totaly inlove with me but t...

I'm away at uni - me and my boyfriend don't miss each other. is this OK?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

7 March 2011 (?) - Basically ive been with my bf for over a year. We have a really good sex life, so much fun together, were really open with other and as soon as either of us have a problem we let each other know, before it becomes a problem. He's honestly my best ...

My hangups with my body are keeping me from dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - I'm starting to get rather worried about this psychological issue I have about sex. I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment and since I'm a virgin the notion of NSA seems a lot more appealing to me tbh (I'm quite happy being single). Prob...

This is going to ruin my relationship... How do I get past it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - This is going to ruin my realtionship Dear cupid let me start things on a happy note for once i have a girlfreind that i love dearly and would do anyhting for she is my world my moon and my stars. ive only ever had one relationship other to he...

I lied to him saying I was pregnant to see his reaction...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I lied to my this boy I'm seeing that I'm pregnant with his baby after I took a test saying it was negative. When I told him he was upset and first thing he said was I'm booking the abortion. I've told him its already booked. I told him I was preg...

Is he back with his ex and is not telling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - im so fed up i feel i have lost everything. i met this boy about 5 months ago in town and we started seeing each other everything was fine, untill about a month ago everyone tryed to spilt us up. first it was this girls he was with before and then ...

Sleep talking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I have been seeing my partner for just over a year now and things are going really well. Our sex life is very good however on approx 7 to 8 occasions after sex when he has fallen asleep he starts to talk. He always says "I love you Julie" (his ex ...

Threesome dilemma, with a friend or with a stranger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Here the background info: I have a boyfriend of over 4 years, we are very close, have lived together for about 4 years, and are doing very well. We both want to get married but are waiting until I am at least finished with my schooling for financial ...

If this continues as an open relationship, how am I meant to keep my jealously at bay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half, have an active, what I would think as happy sex life, and we are.. well were, serious. Over the past few weeks, he became quite antsy with me, very blunt, snappy, not his usual self. I didn't...

Is he holding onto my things because deep down he doesn't want to lose me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Please help as I'm in need of advice/answers (only from men please). Have been in 2 yr relationship with a disabled man. I love him, yet he always plays mind games. I don't mind this, as I know that he's very insecure; On new years day i rang to say ...

I lied about pregnancy and want to regain his trust.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Okay, I had a huge fight with my fiancee a couple of days ago and in the heat I busted out. I am pregnant! We had been trying to get pregnant since december so I felt awful... So a few days later when he asked me if it was really true I coulde...

I'm a pagan and he's a jehovas witness...can this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - hey, i'll try to keep this short. theres this guy i really fancy and we got on brilliantly, well we still do. but recently i found out he's a strict jehovas witness. for most people that wouldn't be a problem, they'd still try and ask him out anyw...

Do I stay with Martin or go back to Rob?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Ok i am soooo confused! I dated Rob last year for 7 months. The relationship was good except for the fact he made me question his feelings towards me. I told him after 6 months i loved him and he responded with 'thats nice!' not the responce...

Would it scare him if I make a move again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I have joined a dating site about 2 months ago and have recently started emailing a guy on the site. I was the one that initiated contact and initially he responded very positively. We exchanged a couple of nice chatty emails and then he went...

Am I going to be ditched?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - Pls take the time to read my story. I am in a lot of pain. Pls help me. I am really upset. Please :'( I have loved her for 4 years. We started uni 4 years ago together. I am a Pakistani and she is too. I fell in love with her. She did not lo...

I can't find a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - I have been single for 2 months now and I am dying to meet someone but have historically had tough luck meeting girls I like. I have been with some really attractive girls but literally all my relationships have been short and ended in disaster. I...

I lied and told him I was pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - my bofriend and i have been together for the past 7 1/2 months we broke about 4 months now and is not living together anymore but we continue to have sex, i love him so much and want him back more than anything else i know his heart desire is ...

He makes me so shy...how can I get more comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - dear cupid aunt, i am new on the website but i couldnt help myself not ask for your advise. i am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy that i have been friends with ever since 2009 i met him through a chat line and we began being fr...

Need advice from the guys - Should I run since it seems he might be addicted to being a "torch bearer" or should I assume he has matured and gotten over his broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - In need of advice from the bloks (guys)....been going out with a guy for 3-4 months, he hasn't said the BIG 3 words yet but we have a lovely time together. From what I've gathered, his past relationships were with women that started out not liking ...

Need your help to get back to being myself!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I had dated a guy 3 to 5 months and was totally into him and he too was ready to commit.But somethings got messed up and now we don't have any contact with each other.I really don't understand what happened as he didn't give me good reason for ...

I dumped him because I wanted more committment from him...but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I dated a guy for about 7 months and he ended things about a month ago. I wanted more of a commitment from him and unfortunately he wasn't able to give it to me because he wanted to focus on his career. Now I really miss him and I want him back. ...

Is it possible that even if he did love her at some stage, that he could fall in love with me and get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I am finally dating a guy that I have known and had a crush on since I was 12. We still share the same friendship group and share two best friends, Miss.X and Mr.Y, to make a group of 4 us (plus everyone else we know)... It all started about...

Does it seem weird to anyone else or am I letting my imagination and pms get to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Hello everyone I just have a quick question...so my boyfriend and I of about 4 years are very serious and live together and all that. We have both made mistakes in this relationship to kind of hinder the trust but we have buikt it back up and been ...

My ex is trying to wreck my new relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - One of my ex's keeps bugging me and bugging me to dump my current bf and date him. I keep telling him no but he wont leave me alone and idk what to do at this point. I haven't told my bf cuz idk how he would react. What should I do?...

He's asked me out on a date but he's so effeminate!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Hey, I have been talking to this dude for about a week. Get on great with him! Hes lovely, hes really funny and quite ambitious. The thing is, hes quite feminine, haha. I think hes gay like! And he did ask he out on two days ago for a date. Now ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I lied to him even though it might sabotage our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months, nearly 5. We have trust issues. He's never done anything to make me doubt his love for me but i've lied to him many times and I created a lot of lies to cover up everything... in the end, it ...

Unexpectedly pregnant and not sure if I really want a termination....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Ok so here goes. Im in a relationship with an amazing man. he's 22 and im 26 We've been together for just over a year and i have fallen unexpectedly pregnant. We have discussed it and decided the best option in a termination ( I don't want you views ...

Is it too soon to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - I met this girl last wednesday through a society and got to chatting with her on wednesday and thursday. I felt like we had a pretty fun time coss i was making her and her friends laugh alot (like I usually do). I think id say i was quite friendly ...

Should I message her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - i m a really shy guy...during college i fell for a girl ..it took me 3 months n alot of pushing to go and tell her..she knew through common friends that i liked her. the time i talked to her she was really nice but said she's not interested other th...

Should I ask him out or stay quiet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - There's a guy in my college whom i really like but i m doubtfull if he likes me. I m not at all goodlooking i m fat i m dark and i get nervous talking to him . He is really a good frnd of mine and i dnt want to spoil it .we are in the same group an...

Should I ask him to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now (yeah, I know x)), he's 16 and I'm 17 and I love him and I can really tell he loves me too. My problem is: we haven't had sex and we don't want to right now but we've got to half of the 2nd base ...

How can I be certain one loves me? And how can I stop the attention of the other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, Several years ago I met this girl on an all-county school trip. Technically, I met two girls, A and B, who were best friends. I fell in love with A and B fell in love with me. Cinematic, I know. And by love I mean something more lik...

I just want to cash in on the little time that I have to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I went out on one date with this guy that i like. The thing is,he's been out of town for a few days and before leaving he sent a text saying that he would be back on the 9th and i should let him know when i'll be free so that we can plan somethi...

My boyfriend is angry because I wont send pictures of my private parts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - i have a boyfriend for 6months before evrything was ok we dont see each other very often but we text each other on sms and sometimes he will call me, but since a while now he has been willing that i send him naked pictures of myself and my private ...

How to keep his interest?

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7 March 2011 (F) - I know this guy since longtime .. recently we got in touch and since then we msg, call, chat regularly .. (we stay in two different places .. so this is the only way we can stay in touch) .. recently he quit his job and joined a new Company. and...

Am I a beauty or a beast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Hey i could really use some help as i am rather confused. I am 14 years old and i have had alot of problems in the past with my looks, i have always been really consoiuse about my weight and i have always been convinced i am real ugly. ...

Why did this man get his friend to send me mean texts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - So, I met a guy a few months ago who I thought had this great mix of everything I was looking for. We had serious physical chemistry. He came on strong, and well, just as strong as he came on, he was quick to dump me. We went back and forth talkin...

How do you know when a woman is trying to get a man's attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - how do you know when a woman is trying to hard to be the center of attention of a man?.. especially when he is already giving attention to her, why would she feel like she has to keep trying so hard?... could there be an outside reason why she has ...

Can someone please explain long term, online relationships to me, I just don't get it???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am fairly new to this site but am really enjoying sharing my years of experience and advise with others. And I see a lot of questions here from the readers asking various questions about how they should handle a problem(s) in their relation...

I do not want to appear that I am throwing myself at him. How do I go about things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I used to work with a man who helped me a lot with work issues that were unbearable. I eventually left but while there a two way mutual attraction developed. This started from 2009. I left in July 2010. Neither of us said anything verbally about ...

Why is he acting all odd,sleeping with other girls and then contacting me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I live across the street from this cute guy, we were never really friends up until a couple months ago. The other day my phone rang, and it was my girlfriend telling me she slept with him, I ignored him, and tried to figure out what to do. The ...

How do I deal with a non-communicative partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I'm in a different country than my boyfriend for study abroad and have been for 5 or 6 months, with 5 months left until I return home. We've been together almost 9 months and what frustrates me most is his communication habits. He seldomly in...

Will my girlfriend care if I change sports?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - Im just wondering what my girlfriend might think. Im a guy. I recently started playing rugby on a team and after realising i didnt like it that much i decided to go back to track (i wasnt too great at rugby). What do you think she will think of ...

I'm always on a desperate search for the next relationship. Infact, I haven't been single for longer than 2 months in the last 8 years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, So I am needing some serious advice. I am beginning to think that I might have something seriously wrong with me and my ability to have a healthy relationship. I am currently 23 and I can honestly say I haven't been single for longer ...

After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and...

Parents want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm not ready for that. How do I explain that to my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I am back together with my ex boyfriend after splitting up for 4 months. After constantly seeing each other (as we moved in the same circles), we became closer and decided to get back together, however before that we only dated for 3 months and our ...

The guy in history class is cuter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I really like my boyfriend but a guy who i have history with is way cuter and i really dont know what i should do ?...

Is he serious? or just screwing around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - What is the line? I mean, how can I tell whether he is just being friendly, or if he really means it? I mean, how can you tell, so many guys today screw around that I can't tell whether or not he is serious....

If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...