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writes:I met a girl last saturday through a group of friends. Since then, she has shown alot of the signs when a girl likes someone (given me her number, texted me, written about random stuff on my fb wall, commented and liked some of my fb stuff, accidentally called me before bedtime to talk about what she did for the day and asked me how my day was and so on. She asked me to join her for an event with her and some friends but after i said yes she told me she might not be able to go coss of another commitment but she also proposed getting together for something else. Now i find out thru fb that shes going to the original event with some of her friends.Is it just me thinking too much or does it seem like shes actually just playing with me? I havent really gotten to know her but she seems relatively nice
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reader, Jackalus  +, writes (23 March 2011):
I think you made yourself look to available but what I would do is have limited contact with her and play hard to get. If she likes you she will chase you, if she is playing you and you do this she will get bored and move to another guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Hmm .. you haven't known her that long so it's hard to tell what she's like based on one incident. I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and say that some girls are just naturally flirtateous and outgoing. She might not realize the way she is acting comes off as her showing interest in you.
Nevertheless she did propose getting together some other time, so she could be telling the truth about having another commitment. I find that fb isn't exactly the most trustworthy source of information. I'd say get to know her more or maybe you should ask her out and see what happens. If she continuously cancels on you or makes up excuses then you know what to do. But I think it's too early to tell.
Good luck!
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