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Dating: Help and advice

Did he think I was desperate when our mutual friend gave him my number? And why did he accept the friend request on Facebook if he thinks that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 23. I met a guy (aged 24) on New Year’s Eve through mutual friends. He seemed really nice and we were getting on well. He was texting his ex at the time though so I didn't let it go any further than just friendly conversation. I found o...

I feel like she was expecting me to make a move and was surprised I didn't! I am new to dating again, and I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I am looking for some dating advice. I met a girl online. We have had 2 good dates and the weekend was the third. We had a great night out and we ended up at her place. She said I could stay but no funny business, so I probably took that to ...

I'm 20 and pregnant. Happy but worried. I need some reassuring words to know this is going yo be okay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I'm 20 and I'm pregnant. I am on the pill and I've never missed one, although I am on anti-depressants so maybe that has stopped them from working? My doctor never mentioned it, so I think I've just been really unlucky. Except, I wouldn't class it ...

I slept with the adopted daughter of my estranged uncle. I'm in my early 30's, she's 21. Can this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Not sure what to do but last night I slept with the adopted daughter of my estranged uncle. Among the obvious issues here she is also only 21 years old. I am in my early thirties. I have only recently met her in the first place. Turned out she is ...

I am still in love with my ex, and I need advice to get over him! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I still love my ex. I was with him twice, and it’s been 10 months since we split up. The thing is, I can’t stand to suffer in silence so I managed to confess it all to him. I really just want him back, but I know it’s not going to happen, so I ...

He's wonderful, but I'm just not very attracted to him romantically anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man since October. He is interesting and kind, I can find no faults in him. We live 45 minutes apart, but it's not that much of a big deal. Lately I have only seen him once in 7 weeks, and it doesn't even bother me... Sometimes ...

Does anyone have any advice on how to handle the periods of separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I never believed that long-distance relationships could work but i have somehow found myself in one. I met a man who hit me like a bolt of lightning and i knew i couldn't walk away. When we are together everything is wonderful but i'm finding our ...

I got pregnant from a one night stand. Can I pass this baby off as my boyfriend's?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship for the past 2 and a half years with my Algerian boyfriend except for the last 8 months I’ve been living with my mother in a different country . Of course things haven’t been going too well for us since we’ve ...

He is willing to finish with me rather than let go of the very things that are hurting me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Am i overreacting in thinking that my boyfreind's cheating on me? I think he's gone from looking at porn sites(now16 in all,no problem,we've watched some of them)to having sms txt and calls to his mobile phone.He's very careful not to leave hi...

Has enough time passed between her "promiscuous youth" and now for me to trust that it really is the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I have been dating my current girlfriend for a few months now, and aside from a couple of rough spots things have been going well. Those rough spots were pretty bad though... Once after a lot of drinking, she said I was "small" compared to her past...

Why would an ex text me out of the blue asking for sex? Is he confused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Why would an ex text me out of the blue asking for sex, and saying she hasn’t had sex with anyone since me? I know this is a lie and so does she. She cheated for the last years of a long relationship. Is she desperate, as her last boyfriend dumped ...

I want to be someone worth loving, not a maid! Is this going to change? When will I just say enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, together over 3 and he is still dependent on everyone else. He doesn't pay any bills (if it’s mentioned he says he'll only pay for his own food), he has his mother do his wash, but ...

My boyfriend cheated on his last two girlfriends. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Pretty much since the beginning of his relationship I knew he cheated on one of his exes..."Cheryl" with another girl named "Chelsey". He ended up dating Chelsey for five years until she ...

I want to ask this girl out without ruining our friendship. How should I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Dear agony aunts, I seem to have a problem. There is this girl that I like and would like to know what's the best way of asking her out without ruining our friendship, as we both seem to make each other laugh etc. Any advice is greatly apprecia...

This a question for the girls. I lost a lot of weight and l have loose skin. Would you date someone like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - This is to all the females: I am 20 years of age and would like to know if girls would go for a boy who is skinny and has a bit of loose skin? I was fat and lost a lot of weight quickly and in the process have loose skin and I am skinny. I tr...

My boyfriend genuinely cares about me, but has issues with porn and looking at other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. When we initially started dating he seemed flawless! After we began to get serious I started finding porn stashes in his room, and caught him staring at women. It really hurt me, to the extent of making ...

Friends with benefits... With my ex?! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Me and my ex dated for 2 months. We had a great relationship, it was fun, cute, and made me really happy. His friends are friends with my friends, and we always hung out. It worked out great. And before we dated me and him were great friends too. He ...

I started seeing a friend that I have had a crush on for years. She is now back with her old boyfriend, but she's pregnant and it could be my baby! Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I've known this girl for six years and we've always been really good friends. I always thought she was gorgeous and wanted to be more then friends with her. She started dating a friend of mine when she first got out of high school and they dated ...

One day of my new boyfriend and we are getting in lots of fights!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I got a boyfriend yesterday but now that we are dateing we get into a lot of fight and he makes this relationship akward . and we are greatfriends but i am not worried that it will ruin our friendship cuase it wont cuase this has happend to su ...

I want him as my boyfriend or nothing at all! How do I tell him that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - So I’ve been talking to this guy... I like him a lot. But he lives about an hour and a half away. We talk everyday, he calls me his future girlfriend, and stuff like that..but lately I've been feeling like I can't just keep talking to him.. I want ...

I found my teacher on a gay dating site. I'm interested in him. Should I contact him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Okay well, I'm in my final year of school and will be heading off to uni next year. Since I'm almost 18 and still a virgin (it's somewhat difficult to find other gay guys) I figured I might as well sign up to a few dating/hookup sites and see if ...

My boyfriend isn't sleeping with others, but I suspect he is using me. Is it common for guys to only use one girl at a time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - If my boyfriend is not sleeping with anyone else, does it automatically mean he's not using me? I know he doesn’t see other girls, but I still feel as if he's using me. Is it common for guys to only use one girl at a time?...

I just started seeing this girl who I met on Facebook. She cancelled our date today. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I have been seeing a girl for the last 2 weeks. We met on facebook and I really like her. There seems to be a spark there already. Trouble is, I’m very paranoid. We went out Friday night, had a good night and yesterday, she told me she would co...

Are my emotional problems from a break up the problem? Or am I just not attracted to this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - i've just entered a relationship with a new man. he is sweet, kind, caring.. in fact, it is very hard for me to fault his personality. I love spending time with him, i love the things we do together and i love his friends and his family. But i do ...

In love with my best friend who is probably getting married to the wrong girl..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am in love with my best friend whom I have know for like over 4 years. We were attracted to each other 4 yrs ago but nothing ever happened. Then we started seeing other people. I broke up with my guy a year ago and he has been having issu...

If a guy is using you, would he actually add you on facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Ok,if this helps,we're both 23 and he's a uni student.I'm not sure it will but hey...Anyway,my question is if a guy is using you would he actually add you on facebook-I mean,what if his other girls are on his facebok too and I contacted one of ...

Am I losing my faith in love because of my boyfriend's ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i live together, been together three years. in this time ive dealt with his lack of honesty, his flirting, lying about his whereabouts, and one birthday and this valentines he made no effort to express anything towards me not even a ...

Why do guys always go for girls who treat them like trash?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi I have a question, why guys never respect the girls who are nice to them and always go after the girls who treat them like trash....

My boyfriend is verbally abusive and I don't know how to make this relationship work....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi My be of 2 years constantly abuses me (verbally)/ignores me often. I seem to put up with this without getting angry. I never get angry when he does this, but i do get hurt and i cry my eyes out. We talked several times about his behaviour, b...

Why can't my family just let me make my own decisions, and learn from my own mistakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I'm sick of my family and some other people i know. Some of my family once went mad at an older man i liked, who also liked me, because he had done some things in the past that they thought were bad, and i think they were mad because of the age gap ...

Boyfriend never makes the effort to see me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi :) Ok so here's my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 18 months and love him very much. He's in his final year of Med School and will be a qualified doctor in July. Obviously he is very busy at the moment with studying and I do my ...

How do I tell him I'm not up for a casual roll in the hay??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - the guy i have been seeing exclusively for the past few months recently told me that he didn't think he was in the right place for a relationship, mainly because at the end of the year he is leaving uni and going abroad, but that he does really care ...

Is my boyfriend is too controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now. We were practically best friends before we got together, we helped each other through everything and spoke all the time. We were like boyfriend and girlfriend without actually being together, so ...

Hes got bad qualities, should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - There's this guy i really like, we're friends, not really close though. He's nice to me and that's why i started liking him in the first place. I don't think he likes me back but i'm not very sure. Are these qualities really bad, and should i stop ...

Somehow I misunderstood her feelings thinking she cared for me as more than a friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Hi I wonder if you guys can help me. I met this girl a few months ago and we got on really well. we exchanged numbers and for a while we texted everyday. I asked her out and she agreed, But she told me she was in a relationship but wasn't happy an...

I need some advice and persuasion in to how to woo this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Good Evening to all Aunt Agonies, Im now troubled with a relationship status that im unsure where its heading to. Theres this girl i got to know during a casual gaming session, it all started off with just plain gaming buddies and we slowly progress...

She likes me but has feelings for another guy too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Hello, I met a girl on holiday a few months ago and I really like her. Yesterday I told her I liked her and she said she likes me too but the problem is she also said that she has been after another guy for 5 months and still has feelings for him. ...

She's always on my mind but she's taken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - So here's the deal. There is this girl I know, and I know it may sound whatever but I really think she's the one. The connection is unbelievable and she is so supportive of me and my career. When I'm with it just feels right, she is just the right ...

Met the right guy at the wrong time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I met the right guy at the wrong time :(. Last year I found the most amazing guy, of whom I could of quite easily stayed with my whole life, but I lost him cause I had baggage, and by baggage I mean my mind and body loves someone else, I couldnt ...

Boyfriend cheated on last two girlfriends...should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

I'm bored and feel like breaking up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 1 year 2 1/2 months but I got a problem. You see I love her but I get bored with her. We are in high school but it really just feels like a friendship. One day she didn't come o school and I was amazingly ...

My boyfriend chooses bars & friends over me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - We have been on and off for 3 years now, long story short the last time we got back together has been almost perfect. He even surprised me with a promise ring on Valentines Day. Everything was going good until he started to recently choose his ...

The man whom I had a baby with was never a part of our lives; now we're both married to other people and he suddenly wants to see his daughter after years of no communication

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - This is pretty long but please bear with me as I feel you need to know all the details. Six and a half years ago, I started a relationship with a pathetic excuse for a man; we were both 17. Four months in, I found out I was pregnant. He wanted ...

I Don't Like His Friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I adore my boyfriend. He's everything I ever wanted and more than I ever thought I'd get. However, I do not like his two best friends. His one friend is CONSTANTLY smoking weed, dumber than a stump, an is always doing pointlessly stupid things. H...

I'm Freaked Out by Beer, and My Boyfriend Drinks (Reasonably)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I come from a long line of alcoholics, and addiction traits run in my family. As a result, I really hate beer, as I'm watching my grandfather rink himself to death with it. I live very healthily, not drinking and never touching anything like a ...

What to expect from an adult who was ADD a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. He's messy, disorganized, a bit hyper, and really bad at time management. He can be impulsive sometimes too. I always just figured that that was due to his age, and he would grow out of it, ...

Does this mean he's breaking up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi Me and my bf are together for the past 2 years. For past few months our communication has become very sparse, if i don't initiate the conversation, we don't communicate for days. 2 days back he called me and he was upset over something and ...

Is a phone call too much? modern technologies and dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I really need a suggestion: this guy I met on an online dating site, we exchanged a few emails, no more than once a day, then he asked me out and we met, but several days before the date and after no communication. First date was awkward ...

Seeing him for a year but not sure if he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for just over a year. I am having a hard time distinguishing if he really like me or not. Let's start from the beginning. I met him at work, the boss's son. We would hang out after work, have sex, go out to dinner (u...

Where do I go from here? What should I do next week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - This is a long and complicated story, but here goes. My boyfriend and I got together in almost two years ago - we started out as the most perfect couple, but about a year into our relationship, he went to university and things changed. We drif...