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writes:Well I met the girl of my dreams about 3 months ago. Things have really been very good. I thought I had been in love before, but being with this girl has already shown me (in such a short time too) that what I thought I knew or understood about love is all wrong. For me, she has redefined what it is to love someone. I had never had those feelings you get when you really like someone, I never had them with my previous relationships even though I thought I loved them. But for the first time, this new woman has given me these crazy loved-up feelings. But with this has come all these other feelings that I have never had. It's like this feeling of longing for her, when I am not with her. I am literally sad, when I am not with her. It's a shock because I am usually very independent and absolutely fine to spend time on my own. But with her, I find myself thinking of her all the time. I don't text her or contact her much, no more than normal. But are these feelings healthy? I am so scared that they might not be, am I becoming too dependant on how she makes me feel? I see her once or twice a week. And when we are together it is simply amazing. I am happy, contented. But as soon as she is gone it's a different story. I am also beginning to have doubts about myself too, such as not being good enough or thinking that she will want someone else. Even though, I know she feels exactly the same. She has already told me she loves me, and has told me she wants a long term commitment with me... So why the hell can I not be happy when we are apart??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): if you love someone you cant be happy when your apart from her, trust me i'm in the same situation
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